As we travel to various homeschool conventions across the nation, there is much to observe, much to learn. This season I have been pondering two lessons that have been played out in the exhibit hall again and again. I’ll share one of those lessons this week and the other next week. First, the lesson of savoring vs. shoveling.
If there is one thing I am learning to appreciate this convention season, it’s the luxury of having time to savor a meal. Most often when we’re working at the booth in the exhibit hall, we end up shoveling our food in between workshops or customers.
Last Saturday, for example, I had just enough time between workshops to grab a bite if I hurried. So I rushed to the booth, snatched the container of chicken salad off the chair where it had been left by a helper (Thank you, helpers!), dived behind our booth into a little storage space, and started shoveling in the lettuce with a little plastic fork. It felt good to be sitting down, but all the time I was glancing hurriedly at the clock to make sure I wasn’t going to be late.
Maybe you can relate during especially busy days. On those days when you have back-to-back appointments or errands, sometimes it’s all you can do to grab a quick bite and gulp it down on the move. In such situations, you barely notice how the food tastes.
How much nicer it was to sit down with some friends after the exhibit hall closed in the evening and relax over a leisurely meal! We had the time to notice our surroundings, enjoy each other’s company, and savor each bite.
I’m noticing the same contrast in how parents approach their children’s education.
Savoring vs. Shoveling
Some parents seem to be coming at homeschooling with a shovel mentality: “How much can I shovel into my child’s brain before he graduates?” They are constantly looking for more—more books to be read, more analyses to be done, more projects to be completed, more assignments to be rushed through. As a result, their children are having to gulp down their education with barely a taste of it.
How much better to give our children time to savor their books and to digest the wonderful ideas contained in them!
“We wish the children to grow up to find joy and refreshment in the taste, the flavour of a book. We do not mean by a book any printed matter in a binding, but a work possessing certain literary qualities able to bring that sensible delight to the reader which belongs to a literary word fitly spoken. It is a sad fact that we are losing our joy in literary form. We are in such haste to be instructed by facts or titillated by theories, that we have no leisure to linger over the mere putting of a thought. But this is our error, for words are mighty both to delight and to inspire” (Vol. 2, pp. 262, 263).
Isn’t that what we want for our children’s education—to delight and inspire them? That was probably our goal when we began homeschooling. But it’s easy to get our eyes off that goal and start focusing on expectations around us instead. We start thinking in terms of quantity rather than quality, and the to-do list becomes a dictator.
It takes longer to linger with an historical figure through a whole living book than to just read a couple of paragraphs about him in a textbook, answer a few questions, and move on. And so we are tempted to move away from living books.
Or we stick with living books, but we add so many books to the list that the children have to sprint through the chapters just to keep up with the schedule.
Neither is what Charlotte had in mind when she talked about spreading the feast.
“More” “faster” is not the best way to educate a person, to shape who he is and who he is becoming. For that task, deep thought is needed. Time to ponder and grow is needed.
Let’s put the delight back into our home schools! Give the children lovely literary books that spread a feast of ideas, and then give them plenty of time to digest and enjoy them.
Let them savor the feast, not shovel it in.
SCM at Teach Them Diligently in Omaha, Nebraska
This weekend, May 30–June 1, Simply Charlotte Mason will be in Omaha, Nebraska, for the Teach Them Diligently Convention. We will have our resources at booth 504 in the exhibit hall, and both Sonya and Doug will be presenting workshops. Those of you who frequent our SCM Discussion Forum know how helpful Doug’s technology explanations and counsel are. We’re excited that Doug will be sharing at the convention about using technology in your home school! Here is the lineup of workshops for Doug and Sonya.
- Flexible Homeschooling with Planning and a Bit of Technology (Sonya)—Thursday, 8:00 PM
- Charlotte Mason and Her Methods (Sonya)—Friday, 2:00 PM
- Not Just Screen Time (Doug)—Friday, 5:00 PM
- Learning with Living Books (Sonya)—Friday, 6:30 PM
- Choosing and Using eBook Readers and Tablets in Your Homeschool (Doug)—Saturday, 9:30 AM
- Laying Down the Rails: The Power of Good Habits in Your Homeschool (Sonya)—Saturday, 2:00 PM
- Looking Past the Fear (Sonya)—Saturday, 5:00 PM
Stop by and say hello. We would love to see you there!