I understand your frustration… not that you said you were frustrated, but I know when my husband does things like that I can get frustrated. What I’m learning to do is just go with it. I try to be really excited when my dh makes suggestions and then later on I can sit and figure out if it’s really something I can implement or if there’s a kind way I can approach him to let him know I had something different in mind – my knee jerk reaction has been to be defensive when he makes a suggestion – which comes across as controlling and really ends up with a “fight” over something that just isn’t a big deal… So, that’s probably not at all what you nee to hear, but it’s theraputic to me – so I appreciate ya’ll letting me share!
Now, about that timeline. I’d ask your DH if he’d like to give you a list of major events that he’d like on the timeline. I’d encourage him not to be TOO detailed in picking events, but really just sticking with major ones. Then I’d suggest that just YOU, not dd list all those events on the Timeline, maybe even with a picture or something “tantilizing” so that she’s curious abou them. Then I’d just do history as you planned, adding things to the timeline as they come up and using your Major Events as things to look forward to. So you could say finish putting up something up on the timeline with your DD and then say, “and Next Monday we get to find out about the signing of the declaration of independence! This is one of those special events that Daddy is really excited that you get to learn about!!!” And then maybe find a living book about the event at the library and have Daddy read about it with her in the evening. This would be something fun and a way for him to feel involved without having to spend a ton of time and it might help make a great impression on her about that particular event because she gets to learn about it with daddy!
HTH!
Rebekah