As I read through your conversation, and think about situations that we have come across in our children’s lives, something came to me.
I thought about Charlotte Mason and the children she had in her schools. Surely not all of these children came from homes where the bible was highly regarded, and I wonder if it was even mentioned in some of them. However, it seems that Mason believed that all children have the ability to be good. And that persistent, good influences like living stories and the bible, etc would definitely make a difference. She also mentions that children should be able to play while an adult was looking out/watching over without interference unless necessary.
As we have opportunities in our own family right now, I am going to pray how best to apply this into practice. Even with covid, we can be creative and hospitable. I know that it will take greater effort than just allowing the kids to “go play,” but the labor of it will surely be beneficial……
Having a small group of friends that know each other really well and have common respect for God and his teachings can help children be able to minister to a child that needs friends. Maybe we can share ideas that have actually worked right here in this thread and then others can benefit. I will post as I try things, even small ones as the Holy Spirit directs.
May God bless our efforts as we look to his leading!