I learned how to knit a long time ago and recently picked it back up about a year ago. I met with a retired lady who is a pro and she helped my daugters and me get started. I use YouTube videos to learn new things as they come in patterns. It would be nice (and probably fairly painless) if you could find a lady who would sit down with you guys and teach you for a few weeks…
Also, Ravelry.com is a good site for q and a and patterns.
I LOVE knitting! I would check out ravelry.com and get ‘Knitting without Tears’ from your library. If you need to see someone demonstrating, then youtube will help tons with that. I have the same username on ravelry if you want to find/friend me. 🙂