I need INSPIRATION

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  • dmccall3
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    Sometimes I see what great, cool things other mothers do with their children, and wish I could do those things too. Usually they are holiday related, crafty, beautiful, fun… I was an accountant in my former life 😉 and I’m just kind of left-brained. I sooooooo wish I was creative and crafty! Sometimes I want to do something great with my son and I just can’t think of anything to do! When I google craft ideas what I find are… cheesy. I wish I could recreate what I’ve heard other mothers do but seem to fail on execution. Do any of you have any sites or blogs that inspire and maybe even instruct a bit – or point the way?

    TIA!

    Dana

    Rachel White
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    Dana,

      I have no blogs or sites to provide. Just encouragement to not beat yourself up over this. You’re in the comparison trap and it’s a lamentable and defeated place to be, not allowing your natural gifts to shine.

    I have no interest in “doing” crafts with my children, I never have. However, what I did provide for them is the opportunity, books and supplies with which to create and probably the best thing-the phrase”make it yourself”. Therefore my children can occupy themsleves and are not victims of having “lost out” on anything; it’s okay that you don’t do crafts with your children. When they have had some classes here and there, they’ve done crafts with other moms; that’s fine with me. Plus, if they’ve ever been stumped while doing a craft, I’ve been available to help or clarify intructions. My son makes all sorts of things: puppets, starship enterprises, planes, out of paper towel and toilet paper rolls. The puppets, he follows directions from a book.

    G-d made you a certain way and it’s a good way, too. What he put in you, that’s what you can pass on to your children. I suggest just gather materials so that he may do it himself and just be there if needed and don’t fret over this!

    I’m sure others can recommend some craft books/inspiration appropriate for your son’s age so that he can do crafts fairly independantly; which is a good thing, too.

    HTH,

    Rachel

    AussieMummy
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    Have you tried sites like the Crafty Crow? 🙂

    my3boys
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    I’m kind of the same way as you are (comparing myself, too)…I’m not super crafty nor do I enjoy “getting it all out.”  But, I have to admit that I don’t mind it once we’re doing “whatever.”  I’m much better at taking trips, planning parties, doing school, reading, taking them to classes, playing board games, etc., than doing crafts, but guess what? my two youngest boys love to do crafts and wish we did more, ugh.  So, I feel your pain.  The things I really like to do, my kids aren’t as crazy about, but the things they want to do I don’t find much interest in.  I do try to give them opp. in the community, but I know that they would like to do those things with me as well.  I do plan to implement a little more this coming year….I do see a value in good arts/crafts but need the inspiration myself 🙂  I’m glad you posted this.

    And, I’m going to check out Crafty Crow 🙂

    thepinkballerina
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    If you are interested in sewing, we borrowed a great book from our library called Sewing School 21 Sewing Projects Kids Will Love to Make by Amie Petronis Plumely and Andria Lisle. We’ve made a few projects so far from the book and our girls are begging to make more! There are boys in pictures making the projects also. Wink I’m not creative either, so these types of books are great for me to feel creative helping to choose material to sew our projects!

    Tara

    thepinkballerina
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    I looked at the Crafty Crow and it looks wonderful!

    BUT I am confused on where to find the how to’s of making the projects. It says to click on the button (?). I clicked on the book but it takes me to a blank page…Is it just me?? I’m so interested in making the ocean felt scene for our beach trip to FL this summer! That would be a great small item to travel with on the plane…

    Tara

    dmccall3
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    Okay great! I’ll check out Crafty Crow! And I’d love tolearn to sew as well even for my own “personal development”. 🙂

    I guess where I get lost on “craft sites” is this. I got an email from “The Mailbox” and they tell you how to make colored rice. I guess I’m trying to figure out why you’d want colored rice. What do you do with it when you’re done?

    I may be over-analyzing this. 🙂

    dmccall3
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    Oh and by the way I have started reading up on things like “making family memories”, “family traditions”, and “family rituals”. That may be more what I’m trying to get at. Because get me to Christmas and my creativity is ignited! I’m all about it! We do activities, the Jesse Tree, Advent (calendar and wreath), etc. And I will make things for this from scratch. It all seems to have a focus and purpose somehow. I just find myself longing all year for Christmas then wanting to start everything before Thanksgiving. And here we are in June, half the year is gone, and I want to be inspired like the Christmas season naturally does. Sigh. Does that make sense to anyone?

    Rachel White
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    Aahh…now family traditions and such I am really into doing. I wouldn’t say I do crafts or anything, still, but I am a big believer in the value of family traditions; secular, religious and Biblical.

    We have wonderful traditions within Judaism and by extension Messianic Judaism, to lift up G-d and His Word and to provide memories for the children to grow up with and pass down to their families; traditions bring so much to life through illustration and the value the committment to tradition shows to the children. This last generation has lost so much to multi-culturalism and political correctness. Regional and religious traditons re wonderful things that promote community and a sense of groundedness and belonging, plus that there is more than just yourself; I am grateful I was raised in a close Southern family that still held to family traditions passed down.

    We have traditions weekly(Shabbat), monthly(New Moon), Yearly (the Appointed Times), 24 hr. memorial candles lit with special prayers certain times of the year to remember the dead and then there are the American holidays, Southern traditions (foods and rememberances) and Jewish and Israeli holidays (Holocaust Rememberance day, Israeli Memorial Days and Country and Jerusalem’s Independence Days) I incorporate into our lives (and traditional St. Patrick’s Day food and Celtic muisic regularly, since we have heavy Irish on both sides).

    You could bring in more American holidays into your yearly traditions or look into your family’s past and bring out the “roots” of your family and bring those to the present. Being intentional about listening to certain songs, poems and reading certain documents and stories related to people (like George Washington on his b-day and Abe Lincoln on his). I also incorporate into their school copywork and recitations to enhance the day/time. There’s Flag Day and Constitution Day, Independence Day, Memorial Day, Veteran’s day, D-Day, St. Patrick’s Day (if you’re of Irish descent) and many others of significance. Since you’re in France (right?), emphasizing your American holidays will keep him grounded in his American citizenship, IMO.

    Independence Day is coming up, so you could start planning a Flag cake, traditional patriotic music, coloring pages and children’s books (like Alice Dalgliesh’s Fourth of July Story and board books by Patricia Pingry, here you can scroll through them) to be read related to the topic. As they get older your selections get more meaty, of course. We always watch Yankee Doodle Dandy with James Cagney, about George M. Cohan; the composer who composed so many Patriotic themes. I’ve been watching it since I was little-July 4th is my b-day, too.

    Rachel

    my3boys
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    I’m with Rachel on this one.  We love traditions and each holiday (secular and biblical) are pretty important to us, but I can see where we/I could incorporate “crafts” into our holidays to fulfill their desire to “craft” and my desire to “plan.”  I already plan to read The Fourth of July Story but hadn’t planned on a craft…so maybe I’ll check out something fun that has purpose, or not, maybe just for fun.

    You ladies are amazing with all of your great ideas!  Thanks for posting the ??? Dana, I needed the inspiration as well.

    dmccall3
    Participant

    Yay! This is great stuff! I do love traditions too! Most of mine growing up – almost all – were food related. UGH! I don’t want to go that direction! So your ideas are great!

    Now do you do things for seasons/months where there is no holiday? I mean I wouldn’t want to bother with Halloween, Valentine’s Day, St. Patrick’s Day… Or would I? Is there a good reason?

    Anyway…

    I’ve been reading about rituals that can be done on a weekly, daily, monthly … any regular interval… basis… Like game night, pizza & movie night, celebrating half birthdays, Saturday morning snuggle time… I don’t know what of any of that we’ll incorporate in our family. I’m just looking for inspiration right now.

    Thank you again for all the wonderful, wonderful ideas! We’ll be celebrating Music Day here in France tomorrow. Maybe we should make some musical instruments to go along with it. 🙂

    dmccall3
    Participant

    And I see you mentioned St. Patrick’s Day. I honestly know nothing about it (except people drink green beer that day). Maybe a good reserch project would be to learn what our holidays *really* mean. And maybe celebrating/learning about holidays of other countries would be fun too. We could even focus on a different culture each month or something. Hmmmmmm…

    I’m inspired! 🙂 I just needed to get pushed out of my box. 🙂

    Thanks ladies!!!

    Wings2fly
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    Do you do picture study?  I find these to be inspiring.  We just started it.  Changing to a new picture each week is nice.  I bought a book to help up study the artists and do some creative things.  There is a nice neat list and an example (great for left brainers).  I am an accountant, too.  But you can still be creative.  Practice makes hard things easier.   The book is Discovering Great Artists by Kohl and Solga.  A website I use for crafts is: http://www.firstpalette.com

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