I ask my kids for 3-4 ideas for our 5 gift categories and that gives me something to choose from though I often choose myself if I find something special.
Something I want. – ds almost 5 schleich Knights and castle (used eBay); others?
Something I need. – ds10 golf glove; dd13 fun colorful socks; ds almost 5 church belt; dd7 ?
Something to wear. – dd13: bracelet; ds10 & ds almost 5 and dh: Red Sox shirts; dd7: ?
Something to read. – I’m a total bookworm and don’t take suggestions for this. Dd13 is getting an agatha christie and the book Nature Girl; da10 is a Hardy Boys set; ds almost 5 February Fox, and Blackie; dd7 Clementine set
Something to share with others in need. – this year is filling shoeboxes. I give them $10 each and they shop for a kid their own age.
I also choose one BIG gift per kid. This year dd7 is getting her own saddle (used), ds almost 5 is getting a tandem bike to hook behind mine bc he is too big for the baby seat but not quite ready to go long distances on his own. Dd13, ds10, and dh are getting tix to Universal Orlando since ds10 is now big enough for all the fun coasters.
I often find used books and used toys in good shape and gift them. We pick up a couple small things for their stockings like silly putty or earrings. Our other tradition is to buy each child one christmas ornament every year they live at home that relates to them at that age. That way they leave home with 18 or so ornaments to start their own collections. These are small things, but such a special tradition for us.
I know that list may seem over the top extravagant for some and maybe too little to others. I don’t share it as the right way, but simply how our family narrows and chooses.
Be blessed this season.
Christie