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  • Bookworm
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    Even if you changed your approach several times during your child’s life!

    Just got our first college acceptance of the year, with a near-full-tuition scholarship added in.  Awaiting the results from two more schools, and more scholarship results.  This is the child with whom I changed tactics twice and decided he’d never learn to write.  Wink

    Hang in there!  Little things, done consistently, grow to mean a lot.  Don’t give up, don’t give in, and enjoy all of it, even wrangling over writing and despair over math facts.  Laughing  Before you know it, your children will be fascinating people prepared to go off and live their adult lives. 

    Heather
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    Thank you, Thank you, Thank you for the encouragement!  I have to ask…did you “wing it” through subjects like history and science…or did you follow an already laid out plan like the SCM modules.  I have read about your writing abilities on the board and I am wondering if you taught language arts yourself or if you followed curriculum?  I am so full of questions and so encouraged by what you’ve posted…

     

    Thanks again!

    Bookworm
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    I have used a lot of resources over time–Truthquest, Sonlight, Ambleside—I just finally ended up finding out how to find the good books, and then we just read them.  When SCM published the basic plan, we took it and added in all the good books we’d discovered along the way.  Science we did nature study by “winging it” and then when they got a bit older added in the God’s Plan series, then moved up to Apologia.  Writing and language arts . . . .  LOL.  Well.  Did it mostly myself interspersed with periodic spasms of panic in which I bought just about every known writing program . . . none of which worked.  We did supplement with some additional things in high school, using with this child both an essay-writing program from Apologia (Jump In) and a few Total Language Plus guides.  I also taught a sentence-diagramming course in 6th-7th grades and  a simple grammar course (Our Mother Tongue) in 7th to 8th grades, plus Latin. IMO the Latin helped a LOT. 

    I also want to add–not every child will end up going to college or getting scholarships, but THAT IS OK.  Every one of our children can be well prepared to go where God wants them, to learn what they need to know whether that is college, learning a trade, keeping a home, serving as a missionary–the tools, the experiences, provided by a CM education can be the basis for it all.  PLUS, despite all our mistakes in parenting, all our failures, when we manage to put our children in touch with God and with the best that humanity has produced, when we give them the powerful tool of habit, our children can be good, fascinating, respectful, talented, service-oriented, and kind.  God can take what we do offer and take our beautiful but oh so imperfect children and work wonders. My son was,  growing up, JUST LIKE the children all around you today–sometimes goofed off, fought with siblings, fought with US, hated some of his subjects, —just a normal kid.  Love, discipline, atmosphere and ideas–plus a lot of God–are MIRACULOUS.  I chose that word deliberately!

    suzukimom
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    Thanks for letting us know – and letting us know of some of the struggles.   As my oldest is 8, well there are days I wonder if ANY learning is happening… lol

    Heather
    Participant

    Me too Suzukimom.  My oldest being 9… Sometimes I feel like I am ruining my children by my lack of consistency, curriculum switching, lack of discipline in school subjects to cause them to be discliplined.  I agree that we are responsible to prepare our children for whatever God will call them to.  I’m not even pushing college with mine…but I’m going to prepare them for it as best I can in case. 

    Thank you so much for your insight!  Your experience and wisdom in so valuable to us!!

    suzukimom
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    Oh yes, and I feel the worst for my oldest ones… they are probably getting the most curriculum hopping.

    At least I found CM ideas right off (when my oldest was 4 I think) so I haven’t changed methods too much…

    Sonya Shafer
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    Thanks for the encouragement, Bookworm! Congratulations! 

    MamaSnow
    Participant

    Thanks for sharing Bookworm! I will echo the sentiment of others that this is so encouraging to me as someone who is just starting out with younger children. =)

    Jen

    momto2blessings
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    Thanks for sharing.  How awesome!  Please do stay around these boards once all your boys are in college to help some of us along:)  Gina

    Tia
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    Thanks so much for sharing, Bookworm!  That is so encouraging.  Congratulations! 🙂

    Christine Kaiser
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    Congratulations and thank you for sharing! Guess we can always come back to this posting whenever we feel discouraged;)

    my3boys
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    Yes, congratulations to your son and to his parents!!

    Very encouraging words that I will read several times over.

    artcmomto3
    Participant

    Thanks for sharing, Bookworm!  I’ve often wondered how kids going through CM all the way through do when they go off to college.  You’ll have to update us on how he does in college and how well prepared he was for it after having a CM education.

    Rebekahy
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    Oh yeah!  So excited for you!!!  and for your son, but I know what a relief it must be as the burden falls so heavily on us to make sure they are getting all that they “need”.   I’m so glad you shared!

    amandajhilburn
    Participant

    Great news! I’m so glad to hear about your success and am thankful for your words of wisdom. 🙂

    Amanda

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