Thanks for the responses. This is not an easy question I know.
I will try to answer the questions.
Lindsey-
Questions 1 & 2: Those books do have accepted racism in them. In the Laura Ingalls books, the family that accepts the racism is otherwise admirable, and I don’t want my young child to be confused as to how that could be so. It might hurt him. And not hurting my son is more important than him reading those books. I read Little House on the Prairie and watched the show. I remember as a child, being confused and hurt by how they treated brown people on the show. If Ma and Pa Ingalls were rapists or theives, and portrayed in the positive light that they are in those books, I would not read them to him. I would rather my boys admire folks who are actually admirable.
Question 3: Yes, I will. Yes, I will. Yes, I will. Yes I sure will. He’s learning about all of those all the time. But in the proper context. Those books are not the proper context. The racism in them is accepted.
4. I do not have issues with my boys learning about any particular religion not being accepted, even Christianity. They are learning about GOD and the story of our human history, and I trust that GOD will guide their hearts in truth in that matter. Those issues are not personally painful for him. He knows if someone doesn’t accept Christianity, it’s between them and GOD.
Robin, my issue here is not with the sin in those books. My son sees sin. I sin alot. He sees that and he sees my distress over my nature. He sins and we talk about it. He knows that other people sin, and he sees consequences. We are reading through the Bible, and he knows that one of my favorite people, David, sinned. ALOT.
My goal here is to avoid hurting him. He’s Black. And while he will confront people who are racist during his life, he is ten. I don’t want to have to try to explain to him why racism is so accepted in this country. I don’t know the answer myself.
I don’t understand why kids of any nationality are being taught that books are ‘great books’, when, in the books, the ‘honorable’ characters demean people based on skin color. And I can’t explain that to him.
There is a difference between a sugar-coated book and one that is personally painful. I’m assuming you know the history with Black people in America. He is learning about it too. Reading those books would be akin to being a bully – I will not poke him with a needle, to teach him a lesson.
Rebekah, I have issues with hurting my son, if that answers your question. OH Mom – Thank you. I appreciate that. You’re abolutely correct, with all points. And Anne of Green Gables is on my list, definately.
TailorMade – often reviews don’t mention that sort of thing.
Bethanna – thanks, I will check those out.
Angelina – Thanks, I have wanted those books for quite a while. Unfortunately my library doesn’t carry many of them so they always have an awfully long hold and I keep forgetting to buy them from Amazon. I’ve read that Peter Duck does have the word ‘nigger’ in it, but it’s not meant to be offensive – it doesn’t actually refer to humans at all, but to colors..it’s meant only as ‘black’. My kids know that ‘nigger’ is the illiterate’s way of saying ‘negro’, which does actually mean black in Spanish.