For dds 5 and 8, we play a game I found at rainbowresource.com called SnowStorm. It’s a cooperative game where we are all on the same team. I think we have another but I haven’t broken it out yet. Great for unity and to not have a clear loser.
We also are learning backgammon, chess, checkers, and parcheesi. My 8yo loves MindBender – an oldie but goodie.
Also
Apples to Apples Jr
CandyLand
Hi Ho Cherry Oh
SkipBo
Phase 10
KaBoodle – old FUN card game
There’s a lot more, but I’m drawing a blank and thinking of dinner instead….
We love the cooperative games at this age and Rainbow has a ton of them.