What If the Parent/Teacher has dyslexia

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  • shannon
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    I struggle greatly with math and even more when it comes to instructing my children in math. 

    I forgot that I have dyslexia.  I was diagnosed in college and tried to put it out of my mind, but it shows strong when it comes to homeschooling my children.

    I did not want to admit, but I realize this is a problem and it is causing me to be very insecure with homeschooling.  Though I love all that comes with homeschooling, I tend to drop the ball when it comes to helping my children…suddenly I find myself struggling just to explain concepts to them when they need help…it’s quite embarrassing!  But it’s a reality.

    I would love feedback and help from anyone who knows about such an issue.  Can I still homeschool in such a condition?

     

    Shannon

    retrofam
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    Of course you can! I would like to meet the teacher who feels 100% qualified at all times and never struggles. I tend to lose my abilities at the end of the day and at times wait until I am fresh the next day.

    With my teens especially, I give them tools, and they figure math out. I like Math U See because they can watch the lesson again if needed. I also tell them that they can use purplemath.com or email Math U See with questions.

    I passed highschool math courses and could figure it out again, but don’t at this point with my many other commitments.

    I just finished a book on dyslexia called “Dyslexia Empowerment Plan” by, Ben Foss.

    He has some good ideas on helpful technology. With a few more tools, this should be doable. The book is not pro homeschooling, so ignore that part.

    Be encouraged and don’t give up!

    art
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    I don’t see how that could be a worse problem than fatigue or other health issues that give a lot of us trouble. I have wondered often about how I could do justice to my kids with my health problems, but I’ve realized that we all have things we need to deal with. I think my kids are stronger in some ways because of my problems. Life isn’t ideal, but you work with what you’ve been given.

    I am sure you can still homeschool. There’s so much help and great material out there.

    Our weaknessnes can become our strengths as we work on them.

    shannon
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    I wouldn’t say it’s a problem any worse than others. My issue is that I personally struggle with comprehension, therefore this henders my ability to help my children in specific areas such as math.

     

    In no way do I compare this to a health issue.  When I sit down to demonstrate a math concept, I really have no idea of how to present it.  It’s frustrating to say the least.  I’ve realized no matter what program I use, it doesn’t matter, if I can’t understand how to explain it, even to myself, without being all over the place.

    My hope is to get help so that I can help my children in turn.

    Shannon

    art
    Participant

    I’m sorry. I know it’s a lot different than a health problem. I guess I was thinking about how it is here when I have a migraine or fatigue, I can’t explain anything to my kids that helps them either.

    Have you considered a math program that explains to the kids, maybe using a video? I know there’s no way around helping them yourself at times, but maybe some of those video type “teachers” with some programs would help you understand how to present it too. Does that make sense? I’ve had a migraine for 3 days, and I don’t always make sense when I’m like that.

    As I read my post from yesterady, I see that I was kind of harsh sounding–probably because of my head. I’m sorry; I really didn’t mean to be.

    shannon
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    Dear Art,

    First, I’m am truly sorry about your migraines, I am.  And I hope you will find relief and healing.

    I appreciate your recent reply, and your original reply, it was actually inspiring.  Yes, I woke up this morning still feeling bummed, because I want to come before my kids with confidence, but I just still have no clue.  I’ve tried so many programs and don’t stick with them, because I can’t connect with them myself.  I have considered the video teachers, it’s just we can’t afford anything at this time.  All the programs I see that may work, unfortunately cost.  So,I’m trying to find a free path, but that means me attempting to do this on my own with no guide and it’s just a mess that way.  My wish, would be for Sonya Shafer to have her seminars available, to see how she teaches.  I’ve watched all of the short previews and they are great!  I do well, when I have a model to as a guide.  Reading it, just doesn’t work for me, I have to see it played out in action.

    But I do appreciate your suggestions…very much!  I thought I had brought offense to you, by your original email, which definitely was not my intent, nor was it to sound as though I was complaining or any different from everyone here.  However, this forum has helped me in so many ways and I was looking for that help and support again, on a matter that I try to ignore, but can’t.  I knew I couldn’t be the only one with this set back, so I figured I could get someone who could relate to it and offer suggestions…it was wishful thinking for sureLaughing

    Thank you for your apology and motivating words! 

    Again, I hope you feel better and can overcome those awful migraines…you will be in my thoughts.

     

    Shannon

    missceegee
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    Shannon, perhaps you would benefit from the Learning and Living DVD set. Sonya does teach a morning of lessons and maybe seeing it would help. Just a thought.

    Christie

    shannon
    Participant

    Dear Christie,

    I agree that I would definitely benefit from the Learning and Living DVD set.  But unfortunately, I(we) just can’t afford it at the time, and I’m not sure whenFrown It is definitely on my hope list! 

    Thanks for your suggestion.Wink

     

    Shannon

     

    retrofam
    Participant

    Mathematics Enhancement Programme is a free online math curriculum from Great Britain. I have not used it, but some have on a living math Yahoo group that I am in.

    Hth,

    C

    suzukimom
    Participant

    I would use Khan Academy. Free, free videos. Exercises determined by it based on how they are doing. You can setup a parent account, and child accounts. The kids can earn ‘badges’ as they work

    TX-Melissa
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    I had started a post suggesting Khan yesterday, but got interrupted and never finished it. So here’s a second for that one if you haven’t tried it out yet. I also wanted to let you know, IF you are on FaceBook, that there are some wonderful groups for parents with kids that have dyslexia, where I’ve seen that many of the parents also have dyslexia and chime in often. I’m sure they’d love to help you with your question. I’d be happy to share links to a couple I am familiar with if you’re interested.

    Melissa

    curlywhirly
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    Shannon, I’m here to tell you that you can indeed homeschool your kids even if you have Dyslexia or Dyscalculia or other learning challenges. My two oldest are graduated now, and when they were younger I could have written your post. I was never formally diagnosed but I struggled in several areas in school and math was the worst. I worried so much about how to make it work and at one point put them into private school for a short while because I felt I just couldn’t do it. (We did pull them back out and home educated through high school.)

    In the end my sons were fine with their math education. One son also has many learning challenges and academics were never his thing, but he has enough math to take care of what he needs to do and its fine. My other son has been to college and taken math all the way to statistics. He was well prepared by our classes at home and got Bs in those upper level classes and is in honor society. Here is what we did to get him there:

    I realized we had a problem. Around 3-4th grade I realized they weren’t learning what they needed to learn and we got a video program and started over at the beginning. We moved quickly through the lessons but we did learn some crucial things that had been missed- like *really* understanding place value- and saved ourselves tremendous headaches down the road. We used Math U See but any video program would probably be a step in the right direction. I have heard a lot of good things about Kahn Academy so I would second or third that suggestion.

    You notice I said “we learned”? As much as possible I learned along with them. And yes, I learned even from the kindergarten curriculum.

    My hubby helped with Math, both to explain things to the kids and to coach me to be able to help them when I needed to help them. Often we would just save math for the evening when he was home and could help and I wouldn’t feel so insecure that I was “missing things”.

    I leaned on other people (friends, co-op classes, etc and video curriculum as needed to continue making progress.

    When we got to Algebra the video lessons were not cutting it enough and hubby’s work schedule was such that he wasn’t available to help on a daily basis so we got a tutor. We used an online tutor with a flat monthly fee and our son could schedule as many hours as he needed. He used a LOT of hours, but he learned it and as I said, went on to do well in upper level math classes in college. The school he went to had a free turtoring program and my son successfully utilized that help him through.

    The last thing, and perhaps the most important is that I was honest with my sons that math is/was not my strong suit and that I had to work harder in that area or else we were toast. They, in turn took more responsibility for their own learning and progress and stepped up their own efforts. I tried to model the attitude they needed to have and thanks be to God, they picked it up and made it their own. And really I think how to persevere and overcome in the face of challenges is a more important lesson than equations or fractions or what-have-you.

    So, please be encouraged- you have an awesome opportunity to help your kids not only learn math, but lessons and character traits that will impact every area of their life. 🙂

    Melanie32
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    First I just want to say that the people on this forum are wonderful! The posts on this thread are so supportive, helpful and encouraging. 🙂

    Secondly, I really struggled teaching my eldest, who is now graduated, math. I didn’t feel confident in this area either and it made for a lot of self-doubt, confusion, discouragement and frustration-for both of us. Looking back, I realize that the majority of the problem was fear for me. I was scared that I couldn’t do it and, as usual, my fears became a reality all too often. Now that my son has graduated and I’m teaching my daughter’s math, I’m amazed at how much better I am doing in this area! I think so many things have attributed to my current success. First, I made it through all of this with my son and he did pretty decent so that gave me a little more confidence. Secondly, getting a few more years (and a lot more gray hairs!) under my belt has helped me learn to relax and trust that God will equip me to do all He’s called me to do. Because I come to my daughter’s math lessons with more confidence and a relaxed frame of mind, I’m blown away by how much easier math is! I get the concepts much faster and have learned all kinds of tricks for doing larger math equations in my head. God is good-He has promised to equip you for all He’s called you to and He’s called you to teach your children! 🙂

    Less, I give you the idea that math is all a bowl of cherries now, I have to say that I still give in to fear sometimes and wonder how things are going to go once we hit higher level math (algebra! gasp!). The doubts come creeping in and I start to panic a bit. The panic may last a few days (filled with frantic searching for the perfect math curriculum) but then I remind myself that God is in control and He will provide all I need in His timing.

    I’ll be praying for you.

    Blessings,

    Melanie

    shannon
    Participant

    All I can say is WOW!  I concur with you Melanie, this is a fantastic group here!  Ladies, you ALL helped me tremendously and I am very grateful.

    I have looked into Khan Academy and it looks like a winner!  What a relief and load off…phewww!

    Your feedback was food for the soul and again, I appreciate them all!

    LaughingShannon

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