I am going to chime in here and direct you to Valerie Gardner’s site,
https://www.violinvirtuosity.com/
I do agree with the others that it is nice to have an instructor. For us, it is not possible financially or otherwise (we really live in the middle of nowhere, and simply can’t drive all across the countryside for lessons – it would be two hours one way for us – we’d have to skip suppers for a week just to afford the gas in our 15 passenger van).
Our children have no formal instruction in either piano or violin, except what I have been able to give them (I am decent with piano, do not play vioin), and what they can use from instructional dvds. If you are dedicated with good attention to detail, it is possible to help your own children, with some decent resources.
Valerie Gardner is a professional violinist and teacher in Georgia, and a fine lady. I cannot recommend her dvds highly enough! (Although I’m sure it would be even better to be her student).
After our son had been playing a little less than a year, we sent a short video clip to Valerie of him playing and she was amazed at how well he was doing. He has played in local festivals and has had several teachers from our province approach asking where he learned to play so well, since he isn’t a student of any of the teachers around 🙂
He is very dedicated and works hard, but I just wanted to share that it is possible to play (even fairly well) without an instructor. Our son was eleven when he started to play. Before he even picked up a violin, he did practice exercises learned from Valerie’s instructional dvd’s for about two months.
Our daughter is ten, and also plays, though her hand position is more of a struggle. I do need to spend more time with her.
All of our children play piano and have been asked to play at church and other places. Again, they have had many comments (even from piano teachers) about the quality of their playing.
So, if you can’t arrange for lessons, take heart! Your child may still be able to progress and enjoy music….
I should add that we are not aiming to be concert pianists or violinists here, just to enjoy music and use our talents for God.
Just my two cents, for what it’s worth.
Gaeleen