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I have a 5 dd and a 2.75 dd so I am in exactly the same place you are. I cannot “ditto” enough everyone’s encouragement to focus on habits. They are making a huge difference in our home. I reccommend that you read Laying Down the Rails, and buy and implement Laying Down the Rails for Children. Also, search Habits in the forum for other threads.
I reccommend reading The Early Years from cover to cover and follow it closely. You will notice that the emphasis will NOT be on lessons of how to read, mathmatics, or copywork in The Early Years. Truly, the most important things right now are playing outdoors for hours, habits, and bible study. I love The Early Years publication but you have to be open to it’s suggestions. They aren’t what you are expecting most likely….they are even better. :)))
Our “art” is usually painting or drawing. I do not do art prints, yet. I am saving that for starting in the first grade.
We do poetry, memorize bible verses, read bible stores, read tons of great books mostly rented from the library, play classical music all the time, listen to audio bible, learn sewing and other handicrafts. We work on life skills like making up the bed, sorting/folding laundry, routines/chores like feeding the dog. These things are going to go a very long way to establish the foundation/routine we will need for days of more formal education.
I just really focus on enrichment activities and just “being present” with my kids. Try to stay unplugged from the phone, the TV, the internet. Just PLAY WITH THEM! It’s ok. You are not in a race with any other family. Do what is best for your child, not what mainstream says is the normal. You are their new normal and it is sooooooo much fun to be with children all day. Just relax and pray about it all and it will fall into place. Do not do too much too soon. If you are having a bad experience with Kindergarten, pull her out now and just play with her. Start fresh and slow in January after the holidays. Use the remaining months to just celebrate the holidays. You will not regret it. I promise. In the long run, you will not notice the missed days of school but you will have awesome holiday memories. Take lots of pictures. 🙂
Now, my daughter just happens to love to do math so we are working our way through RightStart Math, Level A Second Edition and we love it!!!
Today, instead of school, we had a complete tea party with an elderly neighbor of mine. She arrived all dressed up in a hat and everything. My daughters were all dressed up today with hats, as well. We learned how to set the table, decorate the table, arrange flowers in a vase, bake banana bread, brew tea, manners and bible verses to go with them, a chance to practice saying the blessing, socializing with an adult, hospitality, food groups, etc…..See how much you can learn just from one activity? The girls had a blast. My neighbor even brought an antique wash board with her for the girls to do their dolls’ laundry. We had classical music playing in the background and a nice fire going. A beautifully pleasant day with plenty of laughter and creativity.
Just try this type of day balanced with more structured days. I think you will like it. I “do school” with my daughters about 3-4 times a week, usually 3. We have church twice a week and gymnastics once. it is plenty, I promise. Tomorrow is zoo day. Just relax and let kids be kids. I try to think of games to play that might incorporate a lesson I have in mind. For example, we are working on lowercase b and d reversals in letter recognition. I printed out a bunch of b’s and d’s and put in a paper bag. She will pull one out, say the sound, then find an object in the house that starts/or ends with that letter. We do All About Reading Level 1 very very slowly. We do Cursive First for copywork, one letter at a time after learning her name.
Hope all this helps. 🙂
In Christ, Mollie