For us I had them do it independantly and then we did the questions/exercises that are in the end of each little book together. Mainly cause I didn’t want anyone to write in it so as to use it for many children.. You could do it as a family also, either way would be ok. I have all boys at this point so as far as girl books I will be no help, but maybe in about 8 yrs I can ask you when my 1yr old is that age? LOL Misty