Yes, these are wonderful things to ponder! I know what you mean, Pam, I have a couple/few of my own know-it-alls. It is a good sign though, that type of personality; it denotes leadership skills. These are the children that will take a stand and be firm. Therefore, we pray fervently that they will take a stand for the right things.
I have found in my own life that I must beware during the latter part of homeschooling that I do not let the enemy whisper failure into my ear. You have been faithful. And where you may have failed, God has not; ever. I have often said that the hardest thing about parenting is the inability to change hearts. But then I realize the blessing in that because left to my own devices, I would likely encourage them into Cindylikeness rather than Christlikeness.
Now I have the joy 😉 of seeing my guys get put to the fire a tad (think matchstick size at this age, but fire still), and I’m watching and listening. I often have to tape my own mouth shut. I noticed the other day my 21yo son was talking about a subject and he was so funny because I was mute and it suddenly became clear to him that what he was saying was exactly what I would have said (which did, btw, line up with scripture). I noticed that he got himself into a bit of a pickle because what he really wanted to do was disagree with me *simply* because I’m the mom (do the mother/son dynamics ever go away?!). I just smiled and silently sent up a prayer of thanksgiving.
So we trust the Lord to guide them and hang onto the promise that the child raised in the Lord will not depart from the Lord. As we pray, fast when called, keep our own walk with the Lord a close one, are faithful in what he has given us this day to do, God will bring opportunities for us to see what miracles he can do in the lives and hearts of our children (even the know-it-all!). What a merciful act of God when we can appeal to the Holy Spirit in our children that are redeemed and say, “Can we just agree to seek the mind of Christ on this?”
Probably way over the top of what you were looking for, but it was on my heart after reading through these posts. Psalm 112 was a real encouragement to me this morning.
Blessings,
Cindy