So…no fun making excuses (or listening to them for that matter!) but here are the facts:
My dad died in a car crash this year, leaving my husband and I to try to handle that with no knowledge on the how (let alone the emotional aspect)= lots of trips and time.
We moved from the West coast to the East coast with a whole new life change–husband is interning at a church in SC= huge huge trip and tons of time and adjusting.
Grandpa died also= more trips.
All that to say, my 5 and 7 year old have been very patient with my super unorganization these past four months. My daughter is only on lesson 89 (out of 135) in Saxon, and that is my main burden on my mind…she is very advanced in terms of writing and reading, so no worries there. But it is so not fun to think we will be doing Saxon (yes she learns, but ohhhhh the drudgery of it!) through September and then starting right back up with the next level. And I am only now realizing, wow: I need to decide on curriculum, buy, and plan. (history decisions are driving me mad…thoughts??) Sigh. Any advice or just hugs? 😉
HUGS and many prayers. You’ve had a very challenging year, to say the least.
My vote would be to stop everything. Take a break. Enjoy your summer. You can start back up in the fall. Your kids are still so young and you all need a break from the everyday grind.
As for history, we really loved SCM’s Stories of America this year mixed in with living books that I grabbed from the library. It’s so simple, and yet so rich!
I completely agree with the others. You will have time to stress when they get older if you want to. And, yes, you have had quite a year. I’m sorry to hear of such loss.
If it’s any consolation, my children did not finish their math either. We will have to pick it up again in aug (or a bit next week, not sure) & they are oldest than your dc.
Drop school, take a break, then plan. And if you need to, start later than you normally would. How many math lessons were completed when she was 7 will make so little difference in the big scheme of things. Many people don’t even start formal lessons until age 7 or even later, so don’t fret. Most likely you will actually move through the material much faster in the fall when you’ve had a chance to regroup than if you are just pushing through the drudgery, possibly ending up further ahead in the long run.
Doesn’t the next level of math have lots of review at first that can be skipped or breezed through by doubling lessons? Could you play some fun games on summer break that help with math skills? Something with dice and/or cards would be good. We did not finish our math either but we go at the child’s pace and will pick it back up again soon. You could also play with tangrams or pattern blocks. You might get a dvd to play this summer like Mathtacular.
So sorry for these past trials. Take a nice break and then look forward to a fresh start to a new school year.
The thing with history is that there are really a lot of great options out there. It is hard to decide and you can’t do it all, but you can help them develop a love for learning history to last long after graduation by using engaging living books in chronological order if possible. If your time is limited, look into audiobooks: library, LibriVox online, Your Story Hour, etc. What history options are you looking at?
Hugs and prayer to you! Give yourself GRACE. Life isn’t perfect and the flexibility of homeschool is amazing.
We too aren’t finished (I have a 9th, 7th, 5th, & 2nd grader). My youngest was diagnosed with cancer last March and I’ve had to give myself a ton of grace. I didn’t choose this path for my family just like the path you’re on isn’t what you surely set out for. I am so thankful we homeschool because it has afforded me to just plug along as we can. In time we’ll get it done. Thankfully you’re children a still so young. I feel the pinch more having a 9th grader, but then again, gobs of grace are what have helped see me through when I just want to throw in the towel.
When my grandma died in 2012, it tore me up and I didn’t even realize it. She was one of my best friends, & my way of grieving was played out in disorganization, not being able to do school regularly, decluttering like a mad woman, and in general being a bear to live with. I tried to push through and keep going. Not a great idea… It sounds like you are grieving, too. You have been through A LOT. Stop school, stop everything. Relax. Take time to grieve and adjust. It doesn’t need to be forever. Just a couple months can really help. Your kids are so little! My oldest is going into 5th, and we didn’t finish all of her stuff, either, this year. Not worried in the least. She is still young enough that she has plenty of time to “catch up.” Math is just such a tiny portion of life, especially when you’re just 7 years old. It will still be there in September. (((hugs))) and prayers for you and your family.
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Hugs for you! I went through some rough times with my health when my first two were young. You will “catch up” – it is easier than it seems.
You could take a break from everything and then start back into math a little earlier than normal.
But definitely take a break for now and relax. Spend your summer weeks working on character training.
All of you have been such an encouragement with your kind words and virtual hugs; THANK YOU!! Reading these brought tears to my eyes–I feel a burden lifted.
I will take your advice and relax, and yes–character training is always a necessary and fruitful task.
@Wingstofly–I am looking at anything from Guest Hollow (free) to Truthquest, Trail Guide, SCM (where I lean….I think), Sonlight…
I’ve never used Saxon prior to 54. We’ve usually done manipulative / real life math until 65. I had one who only worked halfway through 65 by the time we needed to take an extended break. We picked back up with the beginning of 76 which had plenty review. The break actually gave time for doing half of 65 to work as a foundation for 76. It’s usually a matter of using larger numbers for the same sorts of problems. You can also compare the table of contents from the current level with the next and use both the current and next for the topics that didn’t get covered this year.
I’ve come up against math drudgery in the past with Saxon and some of our children. Consider looking into CM math suggestions for quite a while instead of a purchased curriculum. We’ve collected so many formal math resources through the years, it’s quite silly. Our youngest wanted books like her public/private schooled friends. She’s “using” Rod and Staff” and likes it, but we use lots of living math books and things around the house more often than the textbook. And, I second Mathtacular as a great way to cover math topics while you need a break from structured lessons. It’s quite fun.
You will likely find Richelle’s CM math suggestions to be a breath of fresh air.
As for history and the rest, why not pace yourself in the planning stages? Decide what will ease your mind about math. Then, decide if you’d like family history, or individual history. My pick at a stressed time is family togetherness. It’s much less work in the management department. We’ve done it this way for years with five children. Now that I’m going down to two for the next while, I’m seeing that separate topics are doable IF it makes better sense for each of them because I am at a place that makes it possible for me to finally devote the time to managing more than one time period myself. I’ve already studied the subjects enough with our older children that I can be confident in having more than one history plate spinning. 🙂 That took years. I’d say, pick a time period that your kids are likely to enjoy. Discuss a sample of each with them. You can fast forward, slow down, or combine SCM modules quite easily with helpful input from forum members. Even if you only look at the free curriculum guide titles and get a few from the library, reading them without a spine or any serious structure for a while, it will be a blessing.
Like habits, choosing to add in one subject at a time in your situation with the ages of your children is perfectly fine. Consider yourself hugged! ;0)
TailorMade–thank you for taking the time to write all that–super super helpful! It helps to have someone tell me about Saxon who has done it–and I like the idea of doing more living Math–am looking at Queens also. And the SCM math resources look really helpful as well.
As far as history, for some reason I have this idea in my head that I need to be daily told what to do, what to ask, etc…otherwise I do not feel organized or that I am accomplishing what I hope to. Maybe I am overthinking it too much. Just want to engage them and stay with a good rhythm.
“As far as history, for some reason I have this idea in my head that I need to be daily told what to do, what to ask, etc…otherwise I do not feel organized or that I am accomplishing what I hope to. Maybe I am overthinking it too much. Just want to engage them and stay with a good rhythm. “
The best way to go about reading history is to take a max of 10 – 15 minutes at the age of your kiddos, read a paragraph and ask them to “tell me about that”. Listen intently, smile encouragingly, and add nothing. When they appear to be done, ask if there is anything else anyone would like to add, listen if there is, go on with the reading if there isn’t. 🙂 Easy peasy, and shown by research to be the most effective way to learn and retain what you learn. 🙂
It may help you to alleviate some stress just to jot down a few of the main subjects you’d like to cover. It’s a two page life saver!
Fill in page 2 first! That will cover the most important subjects for your young children. (Science may be nature study all year, or choose from the living books list before stressing over a curriculum at this point.)
You needn’t fill in every line on page one right away. Just get a few things down to be able to see how much you already have planned. You’d be surprised how much you already know you want to cover and how you will do it.