Sometimes I want to go live on a deserted island. Culture, you know.

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  • missceegee
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    We took our kids to a local pool this afternoon and while there a group of 7-10 year old girls start singing along to the music being played

    “I trade my soul for a wish,

    pennies and dimes for a kiss

    I wasn’t looking for this,

    but now you’re in my way

    Your stare was holdin’, Ripped jeans, skin was showin’

    Hot night, wind was blowin’

    Where you think you’re going, baby?

    [Chorus]

    Hey, I just met you,

    and this is crazy,

    but here’s my number,

    so call me, maybe?

    It’s hard to look right,

    at you baby,

    but here’s my number,

    so call me, maybe? “

    All this while their parents smiled and snapped pictures and video. I wanted to scream or throw up. What is WRONG with people? Why do adults find the sexualization of little kids cute? I would have disliked it if it were teenagers, but little ones? Really?

    Sorry for the rant. This kind of thing really bothers me. A lot.

    Christie

    thepinkballerina
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    I HATE when rock music is blaring anywhere we go. We don’t listen to anything but hymns or classical music. I can understand some old fashioned type music with no lyrics. I’d rather listen to upbeat ragtime or jazzy type…Todays pop music is WAY to sexual for ANYONE to hear without being embarrassed. Oh, how the Lord grieves. I would have had to leave. That IS sickening. I’m reading a book now Keeping The Little in Your Little Girl, I think it’s called. The moms will not think it’s so cute when their young lady (today’s society calls them “teen”) comes home pregant or has STD’s. Frown 

     

    If you find that deserted Island let us in on it, will you? Lol We are reading The Swiss Family Robinson right now. Sounds adventerous.

     

    Tara

    tlm123
    Member

    I totally agree!  My son is 10 and I am so glad we homeschool because I would be worried sick about who he would socialize with at public school.  I see kids with such inappropriate clothes and behaviors.  My rant is the technology.  Texting, phones…it is so obnoxious!  People worry about homeschooled kids and socialization but don’t say anything about kids texting and talking on cell phones constantly.  That is not socialization at all.  At least my son can carry on a conversation face to face with someone of any age.  My niece had a cell phone at 11.  Why do you need a cell phone at 11?  When I was babysitting her and trying to help her practice her spelling words she would interrupt me any time her phone chirped or made a noise.  Rude, rude, rude!

    Inky
    Member

    How horrible. The worst thing is, they can’t help it.  They are spiritually dead.  Then are slaves to sin.  Even more sobering – it’s only by God’s grace that I’m not there too.

    Ephesians 2 tells me: As for you, you were dead in your transgressions and sins, 2 in which you used to live when you followed the ways of this world and of the ruler of the kingdom of the air, the spirit who is now at work in those who are disobedient. 3 All of us also lived among them at one time, gratifying the cravings of our flesh and following its desires and thoughts. Like the rest, we were by nature deserving of wrath. 4 But because of his great love for us, God, who is rich in mercy, 5 made us alive with Christ even when we were dead in transgressions —it is by grace you have been saved. 6 And God raised us up with Christ and seated us with him in the heavenly realms in Christ Jesus, 7 in order that in the coming ages he might show the incomparable riches of his grace, expressed in his kindness to us in Christ Jesus. 8 For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith —and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God— 9 not by works, so that no one can boast. 10 For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.

    Lets praise our hearts out for God’s grace shown to us, pray our hearts out for these people/our culture/ and do everything we can to do the good works God has prepared for us to do.

    missceegee
    Participant

    Pinkballerina – We enjoy a wide variety of music, but not what I call teeny bopper pop. We didn’t leave as my kids were oblivious off swimming and diving. Hubby and I noticed it. Personally, while we thought it ridiculous and sad, we wouldn’t have left anyway as we would have simply turned it into an opportunity for discussion -a chance to be in the world and not of it, under our supervision. It’s rare that we don’t receive compliments on our kids when at the pool and it leads to many good discussions and seed planting for me and hubby. Simply what works for us in these situations. I agree with you completely how much of today’s entertainment grieves the Lord.

    Tim123 – here, here. I agree. Watch families the next time you’re in a restaurant. Many don’t even talk, they’re all busy twiddling with a gadget of some sort. Sad, very sad!

    missceegee
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    Ruthm, I love that passage in Ephesians and could not agree more regarding the need to praise God and pray for the lost. Hubby and I talked about that very thing, too. Should have mentioned it originally.

    It is just sad/terrible/… How far society can fall in such a relatively short time. I know this isn’t new, it’s the problem of original sin, but it’s sobering to see with your own eyes. I’ll admit that there is a part of me that longs for a Mayberry type of environment sometimes. It isn’t realistic and I know it isn’t His plan for my family, but sometimes it sounds nice.

    Forgive me for complaining. I need to remember to turn these things over to the Lord and simply live before the world, sharing Him as we can and leave it at that.

    Christie

    my3boys
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    What song are those lyrics from and who sings it?? Sad, but it’s probably some teeny-bopper popstar who shouldn’t be knowing about such things. What’s sad is that young girls/boys really think they should know all about that kind of stuff and it wasn’t any better when I was a girl, at least not at our elementary school. Girls were already knowing/living way beyond their years in 4-6th grade, even then.

    Ah, Mayberry, just for a day, huh??

    We listen to all kinds of music, classical, folk, music from the theatre, Christian music modern and traditional, and some rock from days gone by…but we do not listen to the stuff that is on the billboard, or very seldom. The songs with swearing and sex in them are way over board and it is a huge problem for our world…parents are accepting things that they would not have done years ago…I think the culture is being saturated by so much rubbish these days that people accept it as the norm. I read that a high percentage of young teen boys are watching up to 2 hours of pornography a night now, what will that mean for the young woment of the future. It is getting worse and worse and it is a minefield. The girls are shocked by a lot of what they see on the street, let alone whatever might be in the music or modern film. I just think as parents we need to be discerning and careful about these things…and warn of the nasty things that are out there when our children are old enough to grasp it. Sorry you had to hear all that junk Christie…it is all so shocking and vile.

    Bookworm
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    I was once trying to chaperone a church dance.  We are supposed to only play music that meets certain standards.  But someone put on a Britney Spears song, and I saw fifty church-going teen girls stop, start dancing and singing “I’m not that innocent” and I wanted to go home and lock up my boys for life.  Sigh.  Well, not really, you know what I mean. 

    Claire
    Participant

    I agree with all you all have shared here.  I see this all the time and I’m in a teeny town of less than 1500 people so I’m not sure Mayberry would have survived today untarnished either!  We have to stay strong with our children.  I agree compeltely Chrisitie with not being of the world but of living in it.  I feel I am of some service when I am able to raise concerns and exhibit a different way to go about things.  Truthfully it is a reminder to me too … be more careful not to fall into these cultural traps myself. 

    Tukata
    Participant

    My sil and I talk about this a lot – about how “nice” it sounds to go off and live in the mountains or something away from all of the negative aspects of our culture…but then, our sad conclusion is that we can’t ever get away from sin, apart from Christ…we can shield our kids but they still have a sin nature within.  Oh, how we need Jesus!

    thepinkballerina
    Participant

    In reality, we would have stayed also, but would have had to tell my girls to go and swim and not watch the girls performing. They’d probably whisper, “Mommy! They are singing rock music!” 

    It is by God’s grace and divine mercy we’ll all find pure mates for our children someday. It’s sickening how young children are getting addicted to pornography and such or even can’t cope without an iPhone or other electronic device. My girls don’t ask to get on the computer much. They get on once per day for typing practice. We don’t watch tv during the week, some weekends lately have gone by with no tv. Life’s too short to waste watching other people’s lives on the boobtube.

    RobinP
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    I’m doing a living books seminar in my library soon and like to show examples of non-living books.  We were at Toys R Us the other day and there was a rack of early readers so I went to see what I could add to my sample pile.  Well I found it…Judy Moody and the Poop Picnic!  For SIX year olds!!!  The whole story is disgusting…  My sil “donates” books their boys have read to my library…Goosebumps.  Her dh is a deacon in a prominent church in their area.  And that’s just the tip of the iceberg in our culture. 

     

    artcmomto3
    Participant

    The reason the kids listen to some of this garbage is b/c the parents do too. I am assuming most of you never watch American Idol, but Lauren Alaina who got 2nd place last year was one of my former students when I taught music in the public schools. When she auditioned for the talent show as a second or third grader we had to make her change her song b/c she would choose something like Christine Agueliera (sp?) that was not appropriate for children. It is very sad, but nothing new under the sun.

    I have a friend who once said she wanted her son exposed to things of the world. WHAT?!?! She didn’t want him clueless and naive I guess. I will keep one innocent as long as possible, and when we encounter things we will address them.

    artcmomto3
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    Looked the girl up. Carly Rae Jepsen.

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