So I know I am not alone in this but here is our background;
I have a 10 year old boy and a 9 year old girl. The sister is bigger and taller then the brother. There is an older sister 12, and a younger brother 7 who aren’t really involved in this for the most part.
The 9 & 10 year olds are CONSTANTLY at each others throats. They argue about dumb things, they criticize each others drawings and ideas, they don’t want to share legos with each other to the point where they are arguing because one of them picked up the other lego piece and is holding it. Etc.
I have done devotions with them and books like Making Brothers and Sisters Best Friends and The Young Peacemaker and even In His Steps and of course I have talked and yelled till I am blue in the face to no avail. DH sent both boys to bed an hour earlier last night because of the fighting. I am tired of being the referee.
Tomorrow they are all starting more exercise as I had gotten away from it during the winter but now it is warmer and they can start doing laps and other exercises again but I need other suggestions to try!