Hi Pangit…. I understand exactly how you feel!
We used this free screening test to determine that Delta likely has dyslexia, and that Echo has some warning flags and may have stealth dyslexia.
It isn’t a thourough test, but still gives an idea… You get the results in a few days…
https://www.dynaread.com/pv5-dyslexia-tests.php
We also did a different test here:
http://www.lexercise.com/dyslexia-services/screen-your-child/
I have a bunch of resources here…
http://pinterest.com/scouterguider/dyslexia-dysgraphia-dysnomia/
You are NOT failing her!
If she does have a learning disability, like dyslexia, or something else – she is going to need a LOT more review than AAS has built in…. you need to really make sure she masters those words. I use ANKI instead of the cards to make sure we are getting in enough review…. (If you want, I can send you the ANKI file I have for AAS 1 and 2, and give suggestions on how to use it.)
Is she able to read what she is spelling? If not, then I’d stop the spelling for now. There is a placement test for All About Reading on their site (Level 3 is due out very soon….) – have you looked at those? I know that AAS is supposed to be designed for reading remediation as well as new learners, so I know that they try not to make it too babyish. That said, we haven’t tried it out yet.
The main recommendations on the dyslexia homeschooling board that I’m on is Barton – but that is too expensive for me. All About Reading is supposed to use a similar method (Orton-Gillingham) – but is new, and I don’t know how similar it is.
ABeCeDarian is recommended by some…
I’ve seen Reading Bears recommended on some CM sites (LD subforums) – We’ve done some of it and it looks like it might be helpful – it did show me that Delta can struggle with simple words even when he reads harder ones fine at times….
I’ve seen Reading Reflex recommended (and someone is sending me a copy…. so will know more….)
There are other things out there too.
The All About Reading / Spelling site has various resources – there is a forum, and a blog – with information about using the programs with struggling students.
Again – you are not failing her. Try that DynaRead test (my son’s doctor was glad to get the results to look at – once we have insurance again he will refer him for more testing – but he agreed that something is going on….)