We started in Level A (I think they were 8, maybe 7?) and today I have 2 in Level C (ages 10 and 11) and one in Level A (7-yr-old). I recently bought Level D and am fully planning on using it (and most likely the rest of the series). I have all boys. One has some learning disabilities. We taught him together with another son (they are 4 months apart) but just recently separated them. All of the boys enjoy the games and will happily, cheerfully, eagerly play games they have passed many lessons ago (they still love Old Main which we call Old Monkey and Go to the Dump).
My 7-yr-old in Level A is skipping a lot of the lessons because he’s listened in on the older boys for many years and has picked it up. The 5-yr-old is just now expressing interest and will probably be starting in the fall.
I realize we are a bit behind where the boys should be for their age, but most of that is due to moving frequently and illness, not the program. We’re hitting it hard now and making up time!
Now my response:
Don’t Quit! Thanks for posting. If you need help–ask! Why did you separate them recently? mind sharing?
though i said on an earlier post to probably keep them separate so as to prevent rivalry, pride, and self-esteem issues…my husband and i are rethinking it after something the author of RS said to me today…
Help your children understand that learning math is not about grade level. As adults we’re all at different “grades.” Instead, help them to think about learning math like learning chess or learning to play a musical instrument. How old you are doesn’t matter; where you are does matter.
My children are 3 1/2 years apart…but the younger is math oriented…and we started late with the oldest due to a variety of reasons, speech delay, 8 moves in 4 years with 3 miscarriages and then 3 more successful pregnancies and births during those years (total of 6 miscarriages (3 before firstborn and then the 3 after firstborn)/10 pregnancies total…4 alive, 6 in heaven), and many illnesses with the pregnancies and births (especially during and after number 3). So I understand about starting late. AND here I am a math maniac…and my daughter is behind…stress…ok…see we must not stress over these things…not even me…and really at this point…i’m not…mostly.
so my husband and I discussed what Dr. Cotter said and we have agreed to try it for a month the combo of art/science girl 7 1/2 and math boy ~4. We’ll see…I’ll have to let you know how it goes. If it works, I plan to put the last two…19 mo apart boys together in level a WHEN they are BOTH ready…obviously not now…they are 2 and 7 mo. 🙂 That would make 2 math preps instead of four. Interesting idea about how to look at it…I have to retool my thinking!
Joanna – I separated them for a few different reasons. First, during the warm-ups I would alternate questions out loud. It worked well up until a few months ago when one son started taking longer than the other. Fast son was starting to say unkind things (which he got in trouble for), but it was frustrating for him to have to wait a rather long time for his brother to answer. If I had them reciting things together (say, the multiples of 3) one son would just mumble along and not really say anything because he knew his brother would answer. This made the daily lessons harder for him because he wasn’t learning, he was skating by on what his brother knew. That was reason two. Third, on some lessons one would “get it” faster than the other, but I’d keep them together. So one was rolling his eyes about the “easy” math and the other struggling to understand it. Because of the combination of the 3 things we decided to separate.
Real life example – Right now we’re subtracting multiple digits (4 digits). One son hates the symbols and the abacus for doing this. He can quickly and easily do it without. I made sure he understood the principle behind the lessons and then moved him forward. Second son has gotten every problem wrong, every time he’s tried, for the entire week. Symbols were great, abacus is killing him and trying to do it without is sheer torture. I’m not worried, he’ll figure it out. He always does and I completely trust the “system”. Time after time I’ve not understood why Dr. Cotter was doing something and then several lessons later it clicks for all of us.
I don’t actually prep the lessons anymore. I’ve already taught Level A once so I feel comfortable with it. And for the older boys I just open the book, grab what I need (and it’s all in a very organized, central location), glance through and teach. Sometimes we’re learning together and I have no problem saying, “I’m not sure how to do this” or “I’m not sure why we’re doing it this way” and we work on it together and have that Ah-ha! moment and I learn a completely new way to do math. Perhaps as we get into later books I’ll need more prep time, perhaps not.
Heather, thank you for answering. I am so conflicted about the together vesus serparate issue…my mathematician self thinks separate is better…so that I can make sure they are successful…really getting it at their OWN pace…versus having to wait or hurry for a sibling. I think together could really work for two that were truly evenly matched. But come on…how often do any of us learn something at exactly the same pace!
I am going to take this back to my husband and share your examples. I don’t really “prep” either…I have a RS bin of maniuplatives and pick it up and go…but I find the lessons 15-40min long…my dd drags her lessons out…i think because of the adhd i’m going have to do math with her twice a day …so that it is very short and sweet ea. time…my son…flies through and wants more and as i said he is so much younger…and because he is younger…i expect he will reach a spot where things start to slow down for him because of where he is developmentally…where as she would be able to continue on…mmm
it is also kind of interesting…in level a my daughter was doing so well…that because of her age…i switched her to level b and did not start at lesson 1 but went to where we left off in a…this did not really work for her…it was the same material using the same methods…but was written without some of the baby steps…so in other words…because of her age…i rushed her.
shame on me…i’ve got to take my own advice don’t i! We are not in a hurry! She’s 7. Gracious. Ok…the lessons in level b frustrated her and ME…trying to keep a racketball still and focused for 40 min…just about killed both of us…at the end we separted like fighters in a ring ea going to his corner…and that was WITH jumping on the trampoline breaks etc.
so after having thought about it “outloud” here (i’m a verbal processor) –i think i will go right back to where we were in level a and keep going…(husband approval of course)
meanwhile i will slowly start eager beaver math son at the very beg of level a and see where his little about 4 year old brain is going to take things.
thank you heather for discussing this with me…your examples really helped clarify things for me…i could so see that happening with my two….
and as i have said earlier (and need to remember myslef) is success and their own pace…till mastery is better than covering any amount of material.
Sometimes my husband panics because the boys are only in Level C (near the end), but they really understand what they’ve learned. They can do mental math really well (most of the time) – one of them is a human calculator and it is ONLY because of how RS teaches. We move at the pace they need with just a tiny bit of pushing. Kids rise to the level of expectation you have for them.
One of mine has ADHD as well. I set a timer for him. In the beginning we would work 15 minutes and when it beeped we were done. Now that he’s a little older we set it for 30 minutes (we gradually worked up to that). If he worked hard the whole time then he’s done for the day and we just finish the lesson the next day. If he dawdled and messed around then he needs to put in more math time during play time. The same rule holds for all subjects though, not just math.
I should have mentioned at some point that they have worked together through Levels A, B and most of C. It was only then that I needed to separate them. And they have both come to me and thanked me for splitting them up – maybe I should have done it sooner. They are 4 months apart, one is a regular if not advanced learner, the other has ADHD and several learning disabilities. But we were able to do it for that long. Even though they are separate we still do the games together.
i personally agree that being near the end of C and knowing it really really well…is so much better than being almost finished with D or E and not really getting it.
We really only HAVE to get through E before algebra 🙂
about the separation issue…yours are a lot closer than mine.
I’ve been wanting to reply to this post for a few days but for some reason I could not….but now I can.
I’ve been using RS math for about 7 years. I transitioned my older three children into Level E. They varied in age from 9 to 13 or there abouts….I actually can’t remember their exact ages. My oldest son had/has extreme struggles in math while the youngest had no problem.
We did Level E together and it was a bit challenging as it required the children to think. I had not realized how the other curriculums we used basically told the child what to do and then they just followed the example…never really having to think.
My oldest child disliked the games…they were NOT games to him…lol!!! They were exercises. But this child who struggled with math did very well with Level E and with the games.
After Level E, all three went into The Geomtric Approach. They were still grumbling about having to think but were able to do the lessons. My oldest though really had issues with it…as in he didn’t like it….and I was tired of arguing with him so I switched him to a computer program {ALEKS} so he could argue with the computer. [hahaha!!] I am not a fan of ALEKS but it worked for a season and he could do it without any human interaction….or maybe I should say, mom interaction.
I started my youngest two sons together in level B. One was 6, turning 7 and in 1st grade; the other was 8, turning 9 and in the 3rd grade. They stayed together until we got to Level E.
As for staying together….it worked well for us. I used a marker board for both and when we did any oral questions they would write their answer on the marker board and show it to me….so the other one couldn’t see….and I’d give them a thumbs up sign or thumbs down depending if they got the answer right. After they both got the right answer I’d ask them to tell me how they got it. It always amazed me how they both would get the correct answer a different way.
I also noticed that sometimes one of my boys would get the concept quickly while it took a little longer for the other son….but then it would switch and the slower one would get a another concept quicker. I also like that they could play the games together.
When we started Level E it was mid year and at the end of the school year I felt that I needed to work through the summer with my older son so he could start The Geometric Approach in 7th grade. I slowed down my younger son and let him take the whole year to finish Level E. We just finished it last week and he is completing 5th grade.
So next year my older son will be completing the last half of The Geometric Approach and starting VideoText Module A, he will be in the 8th grade. My youngest son will be starting The Geometric Approach and he will be entering the 6th grade.
For those that may not know….The Geometric Approach is RightStarts Middle School math curriculum. Once they complete it they are ready for Algebra. It takes about two year to complete as they, RS, suggests adding in VideoText Module A when you are about half way through The Geometric Approach.
For summer we started playing the fraction games out of the game book. We set the timer for 15 minutes and play.
I will have to admit that usually during the school year we only play the games if suggested in the book. But not too long ago I actually picked up the game book and started really looking at the games and was impressed by how thorough the games were in all aspects of fractions. Figure why spend any additional money on another resource when I have this at my finger tips. Because although fractions are taught in level E….it’s on the lite side and I know my boys could use extra practice. Division of fractions are not taught in Level E but are in the game book.
I have been researching the CM methods and bought some items from SCM at a conference this past April and look forward to implementing more this coming school year.
Blessings,
Debbie
FYI….I have 6 children. The two oldest have graduated. This coming school year I will have a senior, sophmore, 8th grader and 6th grader. I have been schooling my chidlren at home for 18 years.
Well, I’m really torn about the together versus separate thing. I am going to my knees in prayer to sort that out.
It would make things easier for sure…but that isn’t the priority—yet it is important. so if any woman lack wisdom let her ask of God who gives to all generously and without criticizing and it shall be given her! i changed the gender. 🙂
Jo, you’re posts here and in a couple of other threads i’ve read have been hugely helpful. As another Math geek (just w/ less experience than you), I can totally “get” what you’re saying and why.
I am soo torn right now as to what to do/use. I have hsed for 5 yrs now, and I am finally ready to truly grasp on to CM-type studies (at least w/ the littles).
Math, my strength, has never been an issue. I have used R+S w/ success and another program that is similar but which I lean more toward. BUT … (isn’t there always a but?) I have been battling the wills this yr w/ math and I am tired. I was looking around at some options, and RS seems to be sticking in my head for some reason.
So, here I am, looking at it for several dc (some older) and just wondering how – between cost, time, and the uncertaintly that comes w/ switching to something so totally different.
i understand. i wish i had the answers for you…but i don’t. however, i will pray for you as you make these choices for your family. since you are a math geek :-)…i wouldn’t worry about it being different …you’ll probably enjoy the new ways of looking at it.
remember if going into c, d or e…you’ll need to do the transition lessons…they can do those together.
Have a Blessed day
jo
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