Karen and I both enjoy cooking so that makes things easier for us. Karen developed a pretty good system of keeping meals in order that has worked out well. Basically, she keeps a running list of meals that we like. Then she plans out a week at a time pulling items from that list based on what we have on hand.
We don’t always schedule specific items for each day, but have a general idea of what we’ll make this week that can be switched around as needed. For example, we make sure to have something quick on evenings when we have somewhere to go. And Saturday is pizza day, which I make from scratch.
We’ll throw something new in now and then and if we like it then it can go on the list. I tend to be adventuresome in my cooking so sometimes new meals come from my experiments when I get to cook. 🙂
The other half to making this work is having a good stock of staple items on hand. We have a check list of all the items we use regularly, in store aisle order. The list is kept on the fridge for easy access. When we use a regular item it gets checked for the next shopping trip. We have a big garden, a huge farm market, and some amazing grocery stores around here. We actually have multiple lists for different stores, i.e., small country bulk foods store, mega-mart, etc.
We do a huge shopping trip about every four to six weeks. We have a freezer and I built shelves in the basement for storage. We supplement with small shopping trips for fresh produce and perishable items as needed.
Let me encourage those struggling with meal planning. We didn’t get to this point overnight. It’s been a process we’ve refined over the years. The important thing is to find a system that works for you and takes some of the on-the-spot decision making out of the process. If you have some sort of plan, including a plan to stock the ingredients you need, then it becomes much easier.
It’s the same thing if cooking itself is difficult or unpleasant for you. It can take years of practice to get comfortable in the kitchen. I don’t say that to be discouraging but to encourage sticking with it. Find some ways to plan and learn cooking techniques; maybe books or videos. It will save you time and make things more pleasant.
I find a lot of satisfaction in cooking because it brings happiness to others. Food can bring great pleasure to your family. Like so many things, you can do it if you practice, stick with it, and work at finding the joy in it.