My oldest kids learned Getty-Dubay Italic cursive and it was fine; but my 4th grader really likes a more traditional cursive look so that’s what she chose to learn. I think getting letters from others (penpals, grandparents, notes from Mom, etc.) is an excellent way to get practice in reading cursive…which I think is an essential skill.
The thing is that as they get older, they develop their own style of writing — cursive and printing. I think that comes from just seeing other people’s handwriting, an increased need for speed (or beauty) in writing for some purpose, and so on. So I opt for choosing something that the child likes and is motivated to learn (if they have a preference), or if they don’t care then choosing the one that seems best suited to them.
My dilemma now is that while I was planning to buy the Print to Cursive this weekend for one of my kids, she likes the Zaner-Bloser more traditional cursive look, and I had been thinking that Italic seems a more natural fit for the way she (naturally) writes…and hence was thinking I’d go with D’Nealian for the P-to-C book. Now what?? lol