My oldest son is almost 10. He has great handwriting. Because of his vision problems we are not teaching him cursive. So the more he writes (longer) the more frustrated it gets. Today I was watching him work on adding to his vocabulary list for science and I even got frustrated at how long it took. He is not twaddling. He takes his time and writes neatly but print takes a while. So my question is what are your thoughts on him beginning to do alot of his work on the computer? He is learning to type and doing well. I just want him to enjoy things like writing a story and right now he gets so frustrated. And because he has a null point he tilts his head to focus which makes his neck stiff after just minutes of focus. Would he be missing out if he did a large portion of his work on the computer. Thoughts?
I personally think that you should do what you think will help your child learn. If that means typing out his work instead if writing it, then why not?
I agree with the above posters. As an adult, he’ll probably do most correspondence by typing. About cursive: I had a psychologist, an evaluator who tested my kids, tell me that learning cursive was not as important as learning to type. We learned it anyway, but none of my kids (ages 12, 14, 15 & almost-17) uses it on a regular basis. They type all the time, though.
My 9 year old types anything that’s more than just a fill in the blank. (Though I just heard about a study that says that cursive writing helps make our kids smarter – it’s been a month or two – something about connections in the brain as opposed to actually needing to write cursive – cursive was the only time I ever got a “c” in school, so I’ve failed miserably at teaching it to my kids, but we persist for the “smartness” boost LOL!)
I’d say to definitely give him a good typing program to make sure it’s easy for him to type quickly and then let him type.
My only thought is to say that if you allow him to type most of his work, keep him handwriting with Spelling Wisdom. I believe that spell check has made children not worry about their spelling because the computer will fix it for them. I have even heard of PS teachers telling kids that it doesn’t matter if they spell a word wrong anymore, just so people can understand what they are trying to spell. So just keep up with spelling, I believe it matters. Spelling Wisdom is short enough not to frustrate but keep the spelling and writing practice going for the future.
For something like this where it’s obvious that your child isn’t dawdling or not giving his full attention, I would absolutely let him go at his work on the keyboard. We are doing the same thing for ds9.5 who is having difficulty w/ his typing, but also hates dictation. He likes typing–even though he is slow. But he loathes dictation. When I gave him the option of typing his dictation, he got really excited about doing it! I see that as a win-win.
Although I can see the appeal of writing everything because it seems very old-fashioned (in a good way) and is most definitely what Charlotte would have had her students do (since typing wasn’t an option at all), I don’t see a problem w/ a modern-day child typing most of his work, from narrations to dictations or anything else. I realize that handwritten letters and cards are becoming obsolete, which is unfortunate since there is a certain charm to those things, but I don’t think us forcing our kids to handwrite everything is going to bring that type of thing back, ya know? And I think if it helps him (and you!) to be less frustrated with the work, then it’s totally worth it!
Thanks ladies!! These were my thoughts and I appreciate the encouragement. Steph, good word on the spelling wisdom. I do want him to learn to spell and he enjoys that.
Amy
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