Laura, I haven’t used Delightful Reading but I certainly hear you on the debate about balancing whole word/context/phonics in teaching a child to read. You may want to check out one or several of Ruth Beechik’s books as I believe several of them talk about combining the two reading approaches. Another suggestion – I own and am just beginning Valerie Bendt’s “Reading Made Easy” with my 5 year old. This is a very cost effective (and well reviewed) one year program. It’s designed to begin around age 5 or 6 to teach reading using what is supposed to be the most carefully thought out balance of sight/whole word and gentle phonics.
My other two kids began their early reading programs in PS and were already reading when I brought them home, but I can tell you they were completely lost on strategies to figure out new words (it’s still a bit of a problem to be honest). The approach that had been taken at the PS was a combo of sight words and very loose phonics. It seemed to leave my boys pretty lost on both methodologies but perhaps that was just my kids and/or our particular ps!
Hopefully you get a response on DR. I do recall that some of the Moms here use DR and/or something like it, and then just do a little Explode the Code alongside to get some phonetic awareness built into their kids. Perhaps that’s an idea for you.
Blessings, Andi