Another vote for ergo! I used a didy wrap the most with my oldest two and with my third till he was one. But at that point I got a second hand ergo, and I love it. So much easier to put the kid on your back when you’re out somewhere, no long straps dragging on the ground. Plus I found it transferred the weight to my hips better. I’m sure you can do that with a wrap too, just I was never able to manage it. With my fourth I only used the wrap for the first few months, then switched to the ergo. I did have and like a baby hawk mei tai carrier with my first, can’t remember why I sold it. $$ probably.