I had my last child @ 38. I thought about having more but we are 2 hours away from the hospital and I always have quick deliveries. I also had a very hard delivery with my last. (C-section) She was my 4th child. Mine are 23, 10,9, and 6. We have an age gap but everything works out. Like the above mentioned the older ones just love a baby! 🙂 Sometimes it is nice to have them enjoy them. The baby seems to learn more with older ones around.
Good luck. There are always risks. Even when you are younger. I was 32 and had a C-section with my 2nd child. So, you just don’t know what you are going to get. There is an increased risk if you are over 36. More children are born with disabilities. However, they told me my daughter was. She is fine but they tried to put a scare on me to abort because she wouldn’t be “Normal”. Glad I didn’t care though. 🙂 Love what G-d gives you ! Blessings!