Navigating a small, local library and the mass amt of twaddle…

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  • Renee
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    My children love going to the library. I am thankful that we have a nice interloan option throughout the county, but even then, it seems they are lacking in a lot of good, quality literature. I can find some of what I am looking for, but it’s really hit or miss. I “order” what I need and within a week they are ready for pickup – easy enough! We live between two branches, so I usually send things to the smaller one b/c the bigger one is a bit much to navigate – the parking lot is poorly designed for walking through with children, the main area is up a large set of stairs, etc. I like the small, quiet, friendly atmosphere. Unfortunately, most of what they have readily available is twaddle – the first bookcase you get to is all Disney/Lego/Marvel and that’s where my 3 and 5 year olds are drawn. My friend made a good point when she said that they lack a lot of the “classics” yet have a whole shelf just for Spongebob. Priorities. Ugh. How do you steer them in the right direction with all the “flashy” books distracting them along the way? They have picked out some doozies, let me tell you. I don’t know how anyone thinks that those books are appropriate literature for children. It makes me sad knowing there are infinitely better options out there. I want to scream “twaddle free” from the rooftops! I want so much to start my own small library, but that is a hugely daunting thought because I have yet to figure this all out for myself.

    The local branch has moved all the Hardy Boys and Nancy Drew books to a back room because they needed to make room for new items, but didn’t have the heart to get rid of them – we found this out when my 9 year old was searching for them on the shelves. They informed me (with regret in their voices) that they “retired” the Boxcar Children series and had them for sale – I bought all the ones we didn’t have (only now finding out that the ones past #19 are not really a part of the true series… live and learn I guess). I told them that if they ever decided to retire HB or ND to please hold them for me, I would buy them. It might not be true living books, but I don’t think there are many current titles that could take their place.

    My older ones are easier to steer in the right direction, it’s the younger ones that want the junk, and of course they are harder to sway.

    (Slight side note, kind of related: we did a co-op one semester years ago and my little ones were in a FIAR class for K-2 where the parents each took turns choosing a book from any of the FIAR manuals then organize a simple craft and snack to go with it – it started out nice, good books, creative crafts and snacks. Then the moms started complaining that the books were too long, too boring, the pictures were drab, etc. and started bringing ones they deemed “better” – there was one, I have can’t remember the title or what it was about, but I cringed with every page and had a strong urge to walk out.  🙁 I guess libraries are like grocery stores in a way – we have to vote with out dollar for what foods we want them to carry, at the library we have to vote with our card… I guess we are in the minority for the things we are wanting and actively seeking out).

    Melissa
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    I hear ya. I was at Half Price Books yesterday. Shelves devoted to Disney. Twaddle Central. It was hard to find anything good because anything good probably doesn’t get dropped off at Half Price Books! With the condition our books our in, they’d never accept them.

    Oh, and I pick up our books at the drive-thru library window (we have a great system in Cincinnati) and only let my kids check out two or three books each when we actually go in but I exercise veto power. 🙂

    I caved and let my daughter get some twaddly Disney princess thing last week but one is better than an entire stack.

    Renee
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    I just emailed my husband about making a conscious, marked effort toward a true home library and what his thoughts were toward that (listing out my frustrations with the local library, among other reasons)… what do I get in response?

    A picture of Donald Trump giving two thumbs up… (https://crayfisher.files.wordpress.com/2015/12/donald-trump-two-thumbs-up-728×485.jpg)

    He’s a nut 😛

     

    Tristan
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    It is hard! We have a simple rule – you can browse it at the library so long as there is nothing inappropriate, but you can’t bring it home unless it gets parent approval. 🙂 So they get a few twaddle bits at the library around searching for books to bring home, but the twaddle mostly stays at the library.

    We are all for making a home library too! We were just at Half Price Books today and it was a pretty good trip. We got 47 books and spent an average of $2.83 per book. Some books that came home with us:

    A 15 book Beverly Cleary set. The Ramona books, Henry Huggins books, Ralph S. Mouse books, etc.

    Half Magic and two more by Eager.

    My Side of the Mountain

    Chitty Chitty Bang Bang Over the Moon

    A Redwall book my 15 year old was missing.

    Etc.

     

    Our visits there are always hit or miss.

    Monica
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    Library woes definitely prompted me to start working on a children’s library even though we really don’t have the money for it.  We have a great interlibrary loan system, but that really is only a good solution for school materials.  Our library is so far gone with getting rid of good stuff that even the huge library sales we have twice a year are mostly twaddle now.

    Paperback Swap has been pretty helpful.  I have phased out stuff we don’t want and am getting a lot of new stuff cheaply.

    I realized how awesome it is to have a home library when my two year old suddenly developed a passion for Mars.  All day, his little voice going “planet Mars?  Planet Mars?”  We had three good books on the shelf with great pictures of the solar system and they have been a lifesaver!

    Also, Tristan, I think it is awesome that your 15 year old loves Redwall!  I started collecting those in middle school and it continued into my 20s.  My parents thought it was weird that I still read them.  Now I have the whole set and can’t WAIT to read them with my boys.

    RobinP
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    This is my home library, currently 18,000 living books, which I operate as a homeschool lending library.  I have folks who drive anywhere from a few minutes to over an hour and a half each way to borrow books for the reasons you just described.

    http://childrenslegacylibrary.blogspot.com

    I haven’t posted much over the summer but I wrote awhile back on the importance of books in the home.

    http://childrenslegacylibrary.blogspot.com/2015/01/treasured-atmosphere.html

    Renee
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    Oh, how I would love to have a home library that I could open up like that! The thought is both fascinating and horribly overwhelming for me, but that’s not saying much. I have come to realize that’s my personality – to be overwhelmed quickly and easily 🙁 I guess I have a decent start already, just need to weed through and pull out the twaddle, and organize the rest so I actually know what I have and where to find it. I need to get better at pinpointing living books, I rely heavily on book lists right now. Like I said in my original post, I grew up on a diet of junk – Goosebumps, Christopher Pike, things like that. I had “classics” on the shelf, they just never were read unless it was required for school. Thankfully my parents saved all my old books, so I had a decent start with what I had there – I haven’t yet figured out what to do with the rest. I contemplated trashing them because there are some things I don’t think anyone needs to read.

    It’s time to retrain the brain! Ha!

    bethanna
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    Is your librarian open to suggestions for possible purchases?  One of ours is and she has put some better quality books in there. Even the elementary Life of Fred books. So we try to check out the good books often.  That library gets rid of books that have not been checked out more than once in the last three years- even if it is part of a series.  (I asked how they decide.)

    Threekidsmom
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    I’m probably in the minority-but b/c I want to cultivate a love for the library, I let my kids check out a limited number of twaddle, or what we call “silly” books. I’ve found that as they grow older, their interest in those kind of books dwindle-especially since that’s not all they are exposed to.

    Renee
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    What would be some good booklists, organized by author? So many are by title, but then shelves are by author.

    Check out this place: HS teachers supposedly get books for $.25! Although, no A/C so I think I might wait a few weeks before venturing there – they are closing early because of the heat, and I don’t handle it well at all. I also want to try and go without children, if at all possible. I am sure they would have a BLAST, but… I probably will be horribly overwhelmed and need to focus 😛

    http://fifthstreetbooks.com/index.html

    RobinP
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    Jan Bloom’s Who Should We Then Read, Vols. 1 and 2 are organized by author.  She gives a short bio of the author then lists every book he/she wrote.  They’ve been invaluable to me through the years of collecting living books.  There may be other lists organized that way but I’m not aware of them.

    Renee
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    I will check those out, thank you! I went to print off something from AO and realized it wasn’t going to work out so well that way (for the purposes I want it for).

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