Mom tears on narration w/ 7 year old..help!

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  • Renee Gould
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    Hi all..

    I am on day 3 of our homeschool year and I am extremely frustrated.  I have read all the online e books on it from SCM, read Charlotte Mason helps, talked to other moms.  We narrated through the summer, in a much more relaxed way and a book that deeply resonated with my son.

    However, we are doing Modern/US History at this time from SCM.  I am reading Stories of America and Stories of the Nations along with the accompanying read alouds.  This volume of reading and narrating is significantly more than we have done in the past.  I was pretty much still reading paragraphs at a time for narration this summer.  Well, if we are going to accomplish a 20 minute history snipit, I have to read more at a time.  My son is above average  in intelligence and I believe the words in these books are within his ability.  However, he is having trouble with the  bulk of information. (I think he would do fine if I broke up.)  He just gets ‘nervous’ about remembering it all…

    A bit of information: it is very easy for him to ‘wander’.  His attention is something we are working hard on.  So, I am battling this along with more information being discussed at a time.

    Seriously, I have NO idea how we will get through our semesters like  this.  I don’t know if it is not important to stay on schedule…but, I would like to stay on schedule.

    Is he too young?  Am I doing something wrong?  (we have had many discussions about attention and I have probably not handled these all perfectly..  He feels ‘pressure’, I think to do a good job. And this alone gives him a ‘blank’ if there is a lot of information.)

    I don’t want him to ‘hate’ history. But, I think he is detesting that part of our morning already

    I am feeling like a failure or that I am doing something wrong.  This may seem extreme, but I just wanted us to have an exciting year with history.  I feel like I am expecting too much, but have no idea how we are going to accomplish our schedule…

    Ugh, sorry guys, I am just frustrated right now.  With myself and my son.  I feel like it would be best to slow down, go over words before the reading, etc… But, the first reading alone in Stories of America was more reading than we narrate in a few days.  (With many more words and things that are new to him.)

    Is this above his level? Any other mom’s using SCM history modules that do with a 7 year old?

    Thanks for any advise or help in advance!  Sorry if I am rambling…I have tears in my eyes as I right this.  My ‘atmosphere’ of learning is not off to a good start.  I had high hopes…this is our first year of CM style.  🙁

    Blessings,

    Renee

     

     

    Monica
    Participant

    Let it go for now.  At 7, you will loop back around to that history probably twice before he graduates.  Let him enjoy the stories, have a lighthearted conversation about it afterwards if he’s interested, let him express it in his own way and on his own terms.  In the past my kids have drawn pictures, made Lego sculptures, made videos, and done skits on what they’ve read about.  At age 7, allow it to happen naturally.  You are right – at this age, you don’t want him to begin to dislike history.

    Monica
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    Oh, and mama, don’t be too hard on yourself.  It’s a learning process for all of us.  HUGS!!!

    2Corin57
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    Well for starters hes only 7, so don’t be so hard on yourself 🙂 7 year old boys are naturally wiggly, easily-distracted critters. Try giving him something to fidget with while you read – play doh, modelling wax, a coloring page. Many children actually process better when engaged in activity.

    Also, a paragraph of this content is too much. Have him narrate after just one or two sentences. Hes 7 – he doesn’t need to learn the whole of history at this age. He’ll repeat it again when he’s older – history in these early years is about introduction, not mastery.

    Also, narration doesn’t always have to be oral narration – let him draw a picture, model something, build a scene out of Lego, act it out, paint a picture etc…

    MountainMamma
    Participant

    Hugs, Renee! You’re doing just fine. Hang in there!

    I did away with keeping up with certain lessons per term per year and all that last year (especially with history!).

    I like to just read enough to my ds7 to get him excited about what is happening and then stop before his attention wanders (usually for us that’s less than 5 pages broken up several times).

    I’ll lift up some prayers for peace for you and your kids. I’ve been there and had days like that with my DS7 too. You are doing a great job!

    Lisa
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    My daughters, ages 10 and 7 are struggling with the book “Sailing Alone Around the World.” I quite enjoy it but it’s been pretty difficult for them. I was just about to ask a question about suggestion for OTHER books about world travel that might be less challenging. I read Renee’s message and thought she could benefit from the answers, too. Do any of you have other titles we could read along with our geography/Bible days? Not twaddle!  🙂 Just something a little more at their level. We can save “Sailing” for the next time we hit this era.

    Thanks! And, Renee, you’re not alone! I was going to suggest all the things the other ladies did so I have nothing profound to offer you except deep breaths and a bit of ice cream…

     

    Renee Gould
    Participant

    Oh my goodness, you guys are so encouraging, thank you!  After I had my little ‘cry time’ , said sorry to my son, AND had some chocolate..I picked myself up and decided we need to do something different.

    Thanks so much for the suggestions!  It sounds like 7 might be a bit young for SCM History series..at least for what I want to do.  I thought studying US history this year would really help him take off with history.

    So, with that said, I second Lisa’s post.  Does anyone have any suggestions for studying US history with just a few really good books? I have Story of the World series.  I guess I would like a really good spine and maybe a few supplemental books to read for fun….

    I will be researching this myself, but would love suggestions if anyone has any?

    Thanks again you guys!  I am so thankful for this forum!

    Blessings

    Renee

    Monica
    Participant

    If I were designing an American History program for a child of that age, I would incorporate the following:

    *SCM’s Stories of America
    *SCM’s Visits to North America
    *Living biographies (D’Aulaire and Jean Fritz are good authors for that age)
    *Possibly supplement with some audio books (Jim Weiss has several American History ones)
    *For down days/rainy days/screen time, Liberty’s Kids is a good series
    *map drills of the 50 states

    Beyond that, you may add some literature read-alouds that illustrate various time periods in American History (the Little House series, the Little Britches series, The Sign of the Beaver, Mark Twain, etc.)

    Ooh, as I’m typing this I’m thinking how fun this could be!  I hope this helps some.   🙂

    Karen
    Participant

    @Lisa,

    There is a children’s book based on the adult book of Sailing.  It’s a long picture book, and that’s what I plan to use with my younger girls…..I have hopes of using the other book with my 7th grader….but maybe I’ll wimp out and just read the picture book aloud to all of us. I don’t know yet.

    The picture book is Born in the Breezes: The Seafaring Life of Joshua Slocum by Kathryn Lasky.

    MountainMamma
    Participant

    Renee,

    I’ve found some great suggestions for books on different eras of U.S. History on this blog:

    http://www.triumphantlearning.com/history-cycle/

    We are studying Westward Expansion (1800s) this year and are loving it! It is especially fun how it ties into Colorado history and all the mining museums around here.

    HTH,

    Anna

    2Corin57
    Participant

    What about the Prairie Primer? It uses Little House on the Prarie series. It is so fun and engaging, and there is so much in it for boys!

    Lisa
    Participant

    WOW! Thanks, ladies. I’m sitting here reading all of this wishing my pumpkins were awake so we could start school!! Thanks for the encouragement and suggestions. I’m taking notes and scanning Amazon and getting more and more motivated and excited! That picture book of “Sailing” is already on its way (thank you used books from Amazon Prime). Anyway, thanks! Renee, praying for you this morning that Father will give you some pep in your step and energy and a lot of love for history. You can do this!!

    Oh! Just thought of this, Renee. Might help you. When I read to the girls I have my laptop handy and when we talk about Miles Standish, I look up his picture and show them or we stop in the middle to find Mass. on the map and talk about how it looks a little bit like a boot the way Italy does. Or I showed them a painting of the first Thanksgiving, etc. My eldest doesn’t need it as much but my youngest (also 7 like your son) really loves just staring at the image while I keep reading. No idea if CM would approve of this but I’m doing it.

    Karen Smith
    Moderator

    Feel free to cut back on how much of the Modern Times guide you do. You know your son best and are more than welcome to customize the material to fit your family.

    Here are some options:

    • Drop the Stories of America and Stories of the Nations books and only read the other books recommended for his grade group.
    • Read only Stories of America and Stories of the Nations. Do shorter readings from each so there is not as much material for your son to remember.
    • Read only the books for American history. Spread the readings out over your whole school year.
    • Read the American history books the first half of your school year and the world history books the second half.
    • Read the Stories of America and Stories of the Nations books, but select just a few of the other books to read.
    5heartsathome
    Participant

    I am so thankful for this post as this situation is exactly where I am with my 8yr old daughter.

    Karen, your options are exactly what we ended up doing. The recommended books for Grade 1-Grade 3 are so wonderful so we just stick with those and mostly skip SOA. I do use SOA for topic ideas along side the Truth Quest Guides to read more about a person or topic that interests us.   I have 5 yr old daughter also, so it works perfectly to drop the SOA book. We are still kinda into picture books anyway….I don’t want this tender part of our school years to pass by so quickly. Sigh……..

    We tend to LOVE science around here…so….history sometimes takes a back seat to history. 🙂

    Happy History-ing to everyone.

     

    bethanna
    Participant

    I like the books in the Beautiful Feet Books package for elementary American history.  A spine for younger children that we have used is History Stories for Children by Dr. John Wayland, published by Christian Liberty Press.  The stories are short and conversational and make a great jumping off point if a topic catches your child’s interest.  I am reading it aloud to my 8 and 6 yo boys right now.

    Christian Liberty Press also publishes American Pioneers and Patriots by Caroline D. Emerson.  The stories are about fictional children living in different time periods throughout American history.  My dc really enjoyed this book also.  Other books from CLP were much more textbookish and we did not keep them.

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