My husband fully supports homeschooling. He isn’t too involved due to his work schedule. Recently, he commented on my son (almost 9) not being able to do addition with certain numbers and not quickly enough for what he could answer.
Background: ds quickly loses his temper if he doesn’t understand it right away – seeing this early on we took our time and played with numbers using Ray’s and Life of Fred. We needed to move things along so we just started CLE but I chose to go back to the 1st grade books to make sure we thoroughly covered our basics. We are moving at a fast pace through each book. Math is not my son’s strong suit. He just started to pick up books to read on his own (thankfully!) but it’s still slow going. He loves history, nature, and science and narrates really well.
I told my dh all of this but he was still concerned b/c he compared it to when he was in 3rd grade he was doing multiplication. I related it to going at his pace and that was a beauty of homeschooling. But, now I’m nervous. Math is something we’ll keep doing – even on breaks if necessary – but will he “catch up?” My dh said there should be urgency on it but how do you do that when you’re already doing flashcards, speed drills, and lessons? I also don’t want him to hate it…he doesn’t love it but he gives it his best.
Thoughts?