Lady in Pink, to answer some of your questions from our experience with RS
1. How long do you spend on RS lessons in those first couple of years?
It depends. Some lessons take longer than others just like any other subject. I stop at 20 minutes unless we are involved in a Math Card Game that we are having fun with. I have seen suggestions for two math sessions per day if you are intent on finishing lessons on a timeline (one in the morning and one in the afternoon). However, I just accept that my daughter will grasp things as she is able and I move at her pace.
***If that puts us “behind” the rest of the world, so be it. It’s what is best for her. I don’t let it bother me. We are finishing Level A at the end of first grade and I am okay with that. 🙂
2. Is it possible to do RS without ALL the manipulatives? I would love if it primarily used the abacus.
I would have to say no. The manipulatives are the foundation to that program in both editions. The abacus goes away once the children start seeing the concept mentally instead of concretely. There are many more manipulatives that come after the abacus.
It’s hard sometimes to match our teaching preferences to the child’s needs, but in the end, it’s about the child, you know? As educators, I think it is imperative to bend in the child’s learning direction even if we are not comfortable right away, since it is for their sake. I wouldn’t like it if someone was trying to teach me something in a way I didn’t naturally grasp.
Suzimom’s suggestion for an organizational system could help you overcome your dislikes of all the manipulatives. I organize ours, too, and it helps. I put the manipulatives we are not using in a large bin in the closet out of sight. I put the manipulatives we are using are in a small bin in the school room. There is a section at the top of the page that tells you exactly what you need for each lesson. Easy!
3. Can anyone compare RS to MUS? Either of those to MM (Math Mammoth)?
I don’t have experience with MM. Hope someone can help.
Mollie For those who are led by the Spirit of God are the children of God. Romans 8:14