I find that I need to expand the musical experience from just passively listening and reading a biography once a week… I need to listen and comment about why *I* like this particular piece, listen to more than just the time slot on our schedule, and I love to find YouTube videos of the pieces being played…in short, make it meaningful on several levels.
One thing that has been helpful is to study the different instruments of the orchestra and their sounds. Then as we listen, I can say “hey, listen to the oboes” or whatever. There are wonderful pieces on YouTube to use to expose your children to music – look around and use them. It is a great way to make the music come alive for your kids. I like to ask them what instrument is on the screen, what kind of sound does it make, how does it make them feel – happy, sad, quiet, excited, bouncy, etc.
I’ve been doing this for 3 years now – and even my 6 yo can pick out pieces like The Carnival of the Animals, Peter and the Wolf, music from The Nutcracker, Sleeping Beauty, some of Beethoven’s music. You can watch a movie with some of these as the score and all of a sudden, the kids *hear* it. For example, we watch A Christmas Story every year around Christmas. The music played in the score every time the bully Scott Fargus (?) comes out is very distinctive. Imagine the thrill my kids had when we studied Peter and the Wolf by Serge Prokofiev and they realized that that particular bit of music was the wolf in Peter and the Wolf. =) They will never forget that now.
Whatever you do, don’t stop listening to it even if your child never can tell you the exact name of a piece or a composer! Classical music opens, uses, and expands all parts of your brain and that makes it easier to learn math, science, and more, including inspiring creativity. For children with processing issues, it brings their brain to a resting point, making it easier for them to learn.
For a book full of specific ideas on why and how to use music, including a ton of recommended musical selections listed by composer, read a book called “Good Music, Brighter Children” by Sharlene Habermeyer. Then get involved in making sure that the arts are made available in your families and communities. 😉