We are struggling around here with getting much done for school. My 3rd grade twin boys get about 10-15 minutes of copywork/writing and about 10 minutes of math done each day. I feel really lucky if I can also get them to sit still long enough to listen to their history reading online (librivox.org).
Other than that, it seems like one of three other things happen throughout the day:
1. I have to deal with the baby’s (1 y/o) or the other younger girls’ (3 & 6 y/o) needs or conflicts that arise or keep up with necessary household work (we live in a small house so we can’t function if the breakfast table isn’t cleaned off, for example; I do try to get them to help some, but they aren’t as cooperative as I would wish). So they are “waiting” for me.
2. They are distracted with wanting to play Legos, be silly, etc. so they don’t pay any attention to what their duties might be, or
3. I end up wasting time waiting for them to obey my instructions.
I see the main problem as being their obedience (my daughters’ too, but the boys tend to be the example). I think if they would just DO what I ask them to do in the time I ask them to do it, we’d get done and they could be free to play. As much as I lecture this to them (and they become discouraged because they KNOW they don’t have the habit of obedience and feel subsequently bad about it), it’s still a problem.
The consequence of this is that I never feel like we have TIME to even THINK about things like Nature Study, Handicrafts, Picture study, (most unfortunately) Bible, Science, Literature, etc…..It’s just all about crowd control and functional coping around here sometimes….
So, I have it posted on the dining room wall that the habit we’re working on is OBEDIENCE. I am hoping we can start to have better days as we draw close to this goal. But I’m not sure I see much progress after a couple of weeks. And I’m getting scared about all the time that seems to be wasted, in which we could be experiencing a “living” education (or maybe this whole struggle IS the education? But that seems really short on beauty and joy) …
I end up getting frustrated and angry at the children…which doesn’t help, of course. So, what’s my question? I think it’s twofold:
-Will we dismally fail this period of time if we are only doing math and writing? (And legos)
-How can I help my kids obey and use their time better? (what a broad question…sorry!)
Any other general advice is welcome. Sometimes I just wish I could sit down to tea with Charlotte and hash it out…but I do turn to God and cry out for help…
I apologize that I am not more succinct…I tend to be a wordy person. But I appreciate any advice anyone may have.
Thank you!