Today my 11 year old daughter was narrating to me from her reading of Little Britches (the end of chapter 1). As she was speaking she seemed to be glossing over some details about the horses and their accident on the train trestle by saying, “The horses got hurt somehow…” When I pressed her to tell me what happened she insisted that she didn’t understand what had happened. I thought perhaps that she didn’t know what a trestle was, but it turned out that the real problem was that the passage was just too graphic for her. She spent a while crying and afterward told me that she just couldn’t understand why she would have to read this and in what way could it ever be helpful….?
I guess I was surprised that she couldn’t handle a conflict like that in her reading. I could use some advice. Do I insist that she continue reading the book (this was the tact I took this morning, telling her that reading things that are difficult help us grow, to which she replied that she didn’t think it would be helpful at ALL to read something so disturbing) or do I pick something else and wait for a little more maturity before having her try these again?
Thanks for your insights!
Valerie