Cedargirl – I have felt that way before! Sometimes I choose a family read aloud simply because I want to read it – not for the kids. And I try to always have something to read for me, but honestly my best reason for being successful at that is that I’m on my 14th year straight with babies and toddlers. When I’m holding someone while they drift off for a nap or I wait for them to fall asleep at night I read. That has given me a lot of reading time over the years!
I have been consumed by a ‘need to read’ topic before too though, like parenting, homeschooling, etc. Sometimes it feels like a luxury to read something just for myself and then I remind myself that I want my children to know I love reading personally.
Thank you Tristan. Excellent reminder! I have made it a point to let my children see me bible reading. Having personal reading time is important to model since I work at trying to find them good books I think they will enjoy. When in the nursing stages, the Kobo reader was left beside the rocker so I could turn pages with one putting click. I had forgotten about that. Talking with my husband about this last night, he pointed out that knitting has become my spare time go to. He is right. I do have time, I just need to balance it a bit more.
i smiled when I saw your comment about choosing read alouds because you wanted to read them; why didn’t I think of that!!?
Well, I thought I would chime back in here and share what I decided to try this year. I’ve made a short literature list for each of my independent readers with only 5 titles each (1 is an audio book even!). I tried to have a variety of genres for each child (mystery, biography, animal fiction, historical fiction, classic). When they finish these I will give them new short lists to work through. This way they can’t just choose to read all the books in the 1-2 genres they like and not step outside their comfort zone. Here are their lists:
Makayla, 9th grade solid reader:
The Body in the Library by Agatha Christie
Jane Eyre by Charlotte Bronte
The Eagle of the Ninth by Rosemary Sutcliff
The Odyssey by Homer (this will be her audio book)
Biography – undecided, I have 3 coming from the library to look at: Unbroken, I am Malala, and The Boy Who Harnessed the Wind.
Joseph, 5th grade slow and steady reader:
The Tower Treasure (Hardy Boys #1)
Old Yeller
Who was ? series (I have a few for him to choose from: George Lucas, J.R.R. Tolkien, Albert Einstein, Julius Caesar to name a few)
The Blue Fairy Book by Andrew Lang (this will be his audio book)
The Sword in the Tree by Clyde Robert Bulla
Emma, 4th grade strong reader
The Secret of the Old Clock (Nancy Drew #1)
Old Yeller
Who was? series (besides the titles listed under Joseph I have Beatrix Potter, Neil Armstrong, and J. K. Rowling)
The Blue Fairy Book by Andrew Lang (this will be her audio book)
The Door in the Wall by Marguerite de Angeli
Daniel, 2nd grade strong reader:
The Boxcar Children #1
Wind in the Willows
Who was series? (He’ll choose from the titles listed under his siblings)
Before this summer, I was definitely in a rut. Then we moved to northern Minnesota (a whole other story!) in May, and we live in a very rural area with no internet. And my desire to read magically returned. Go figure…
I tend to gravitate toward food-related books, especially those with good photography. After that, I can pour over homesteading books and topics without hesitation. I notice that the type of book I’m least likely to pick up are parenting/mother in books. (Referring to books like Sally Clarkson’s The Ministry of Motherhood and similar titles.) I know these are quality, healthy books that do me worlds of good, but for some reason I always feel like the worst mom ever when I read them.
Anyway, I’ve actually branched out from my normal genres this summer since reading has been the one “free time” activity I’ve been able to do. It’s amazing how much time I was spending online before, and I truly didn’t realize how much it was. Even though what I was doing was mostly worthwhile stuff.
The Harbinger: I guess this is Christian fiction and/or mystery.
Heroes Then and Now: Amy Carmichael: biography. I’m pre-reading this because I want dd10 to read it next year, but I’ve enjoyed it!
The Omnivore’s Dilemma: nonfiction–and I highly recommend it!
Pagan Christianity: Christian non-fiction. Re-reading.
How to Speak Minnesotan: comedy/satire/adult twaddle probably. Lol! It’s appropriate since we just moved here though. 😉
Guide to Keeping Backyard Chickens: homesteading how-to.
The Edible Front Yard: gardening.
My Paleo Patisserie: paleo artisanal pastry and baking cookbook with amazing photography.
I need to branch out of my comfort zone and read some homeschooling/parenting books. And I’m noticing my list is sadly lacking fiction.
Hi Lindsey! (waving) So great to hear from you on the forum! And I had to laugh when I read the magic of moving away from easy internet. Yes, even good internet time can suck us in more than we realize. That was part of my decision to close my blog – I couldn’t devote the time I felt I ‘should’ if I were to keep paying for the hosting and such and I knew that with baby #9 coming I really was not going to have any extra time to begin with. LOL.
I like seeing your more non-fiction reading list. I’ve read a few of the Heroes Then and Now before and enjoyed them, the one about George Muller is actually on several of my kids’ second list of books this year.