Amy,
I don’t think parents should “cater to” a learning style difference, but totally ignoring them can often backfire, too. I like to think of learning styles and preferences as bases to start on–then build the other skills from there. I have a highly visual learner, AND an auditory, and a kinesthetic. 🙂 Your child will be able to learn and adapt somewhat in many different ways, but it is important to note that into adulthood, they may find that learning in different modalities is more work–more fatiguing, just plain harder. That doesn’t mean you never do anything in another style, it just means that when time and resources are at a premium, it makes sense to use the most efficient method when possible. So if I were just beginning narration with a child–narration being very hard work–I would initially find the way they are most comfortable, build skills that way, and THEN expand into other ways. It will be less frustrating for your child. I was able to adapt to hearing lectures and talks, although I am a very visual learner, but when I really need information, to this day I prefer to read it. It just is easier and takes less time and effort.
Just some thoughts. Realistically assessing your child and how he learns and then making use of his strengths while making a plan to work on weaknesses, is not catering. It is common sense.