I’ve had a problem with spelling for my son. I’ve tried several things and I have found this to be working for now…. my son is 8 btw.
First we discuss the words and I go through each word discussing the phonics of each and pointing out patterns and vowel chunks or blends etc. and then he copies each word correctly while I watch carefully. I have him verbally say the word and then each letter as he writes it to incorporate his audio learning with the visual and the physical of writing.
Second day I have him put all the words into alpha order and I make sure he writes each word correctly again using verba as he does so.
Third day I have him use each word in a sentence correctly and write them again correctly.
4th day I do a verbal pretest and any that he has to work on or can’t ust blurt right out, then I have him copy those words 5 times correctly saying the letters as he forms them.
5th day he know them and can write them easily.
I have used spelling word lists and copywork sentences, workbooks, All about spelling, etc and my morphed up method is bits of each that I found benefitted him the most.
He used to cry as soon as I mentioned spelling because he would get so frustrated and it made him feel so inadequate, but now he has learned that if he does the steps each day that by the end of the week he can spell the words or write the sentence and so no more tears.
I know that all the spelling programs I have tried are great, just not everything I needed for my son.