The books can seem a little intimidating at first, I know (I mean Charlotte’s original writings) but it is REALLY worth the time to go to the source for learning. Almost all of us read various helpful “about” books at first, and they can indeed be quite, quite helpful. They make wonderful “jump starts” and good bridges to the real books. But there are some things that if you are serious about, you ought to go to the source first. Overviews are good and I’m so glad for all the hard work that good people have done to make Charlotte’s ideas accessible. However, I always teach my kids that the source is the best! It’s best to READ Treasure Island if you want to experience it–it’s not enough to read the Cliffs Notes! A synopsis here and there can help, but even the best–like, say, Lamb’s Shakespeare–while useful in its own time and place–does NOT replace A Midsummer Night’s Dream! It can help you get to the point you can read it on your own–but you will really miss out if you don’t read it, the real thing.
IMO it’s just so with Charlotte’s writings. What Sonya has done here is extraordinarily useful because she has gathered what Charlotte has written on a subject from many places in the books and put it together on habits or language and so on. That is very useful, even for those of us who have read and continue to read Charlotte’s writings. But every time I read through Charlotte’s own writings, I find some nugget that I didn’t really realize before, or didn’t understand before, and there is a LOT in there that just is not in the “about” books. Some of it is less useful than other parts, IMO, but there is gold in there waiting to be mined by the patient and dedicated mother.
Even just setting a program to read a few pages a week or a month can be a great benefit. I don’t read the books for long at one sitting–they aren’t that kind. I just do a bit at a time. And I get off track sometimes, and it took me a while to read them all, all the way through–several years, in fact. But since we are all in a long-term project here–it’s worth it, IMO.