I remember reading somewhere (that Virgen Gurigen guy? The one who’s name no one can pronounce??) that children aren’t bothered by the “dark” fairy tales. I’m not sure, because I shied away from reading those to my girls. But I remember reading that children can remember these are fairy tales, not real-life. And that reading them to our children actually helps them deal with the bad stuff that happens in real life.
I’m not sure whether I agree or not, because it seems that in real life, VERY bad stuff (things that our grandparents would NEVER have dreamed would happen) is happening. And then I worry that reading those “dark” tales to my children might somehow intrigue them and then my child would end up being one of those BAD people. I don’t know.
I will say that I plainly remember from my childhood that Cinderella’s stepsisters cut off their big toe and their heel in an effort ot get the glass slipper on. That has not bothered me in the least…..except when there’s a pair of shoes that are too small for me that I want. And then I remember the step-sisters.