Sorry to hear this has been a challenge for you, pangit! Others may have different views, but I will give you my two cents on ETC. We used the workbooks for about 8 months when my children 6 and 7.5. Then we tried the online version. I went into ETC feeling so very hopeful that it would solidify phonics and decoding for my boys, and that it would accomplish the goal through independent work. I know it has worked for many other families. I am sorry to say that this was NOT the case for us, at least not past the early reading stage.
For us, ETC worked decently in the early reading stage – short vowels and easy blends. My kids liked it and found it easy to do for the few months. But once we got to syllabication in book 3 and vowel teams in the books beyond, my kids seemed to retain very little. It probably didn’t help that I encouraged them to do ETC independently; looking back, I realize that they were not carefully reading or in any way “locking in” the phonics “rule” presented at the top of each worksheet. (I’m putting “rule” in quotations because compared to other programs ETC’s presentation of phonics rules is extremely basic).
In the end, my kids knew how the variety of exercises worked (it’s the same format througout the series) and by book 4 they were just going through the exercises based on guesswork. Unless you, as the teacher, aim to have your child memorize the rule for each unit – and then drill her on it and actually try out the rule in other formats that you invent – I can’t see this as a program that really locks in reading strategies.
Bottom line, I think ETC is a great program for the early reading stage of figuring out how to blend basic vowels and consonants into words. But as a program for taking reading beyond this level, we had zero success.
What worked/what did we do instead? I ended up shifting gears and trying more intense spelling programs that encourage phonics awareness (phonetic zoo was one though we later switched to Sequential Spelling). Alongside of this we simply did a TON of oral reading/buddy reading. Always daily, sometimes twice a day, and usually on the weekends, too. We used graded readers (similar to Pathway) that use a combination of sight and phonics words. Our sessions worked like this:
DS and I would sit together for 10 minutes a day, reading a chapter or two (whenever he got tired I would read a bit so that we could keep advancing, but I held my finger under my reading path). Whenever HE came to an unknown word, he usually had no CLUE how to sound out or decode. I simply told him the word, made him say it, and then he would go back to the beginning of the sentence and say the word correctly within the sentence. I kept a “word book” at my side during these sessions, and I wrote down every word he struggled with and learned that day. At the start of the next day’s session, I would show him the words from yesterday’s entries in the word book; he would read them if remembered; if he’d forgotten I just told him. Seems like such a long way around the fence, but after a few months the progress became quite amazing. More importantly he began to LOVE reading (maybe because he associated it with a lovely, quiet time with Mom? Or just due to new found confidence? Hard to know for sure).
Long story short, I used this “method” for over two years after we’d pulled my eldest boys from PS (grade 1 and grade2) and I was faced with the task of filling in the reading gaps. I now have two book-loving kids, both of whom are a full grade above level. The eldest was fairly on track to begin with, but my second son was most certainly later to begin reading, struggles with hand-writing and has a shorter attention span. Even with my second son, we have had success with what I outlined above.
Next in line is 3rd son (1st grade, turning 7 in May). I am presently using the reader/word book method for our oral reading sessions, and we are using Reading Lessons Through Literature for phonics. I’m very happy with RLTL – for both the reading sessions and the fact that it incorporates spelling in a way that actually forces the child to KNOW phonics application. You might want to check it out…the author does show an Appendix on using the program for older children (though I think she cited age 8 or so)…it might be too much “starting over” for you, but you know your child best! For what it’s worth my almost 11 year old and 9.5 year old have occasionally listened to me teaching my 7 year old from RLTL and have commented that they wish they had learned how to figure out words that way (how smiling I am on those days!)
Blessings, Angie