I used SWR (Spell to Write and Read) to teach my dd to read and that IS CUMBERSOME, but very effective. I was already using the phonogram cards w/ SWR, so it was just intro. the cursive forms.
I am now using it with my 5 yo ds and I do use the cards and have him verbalize what he’s doing per the script on the cards. ie. “Start at the baseline, make a short uphill stroke, up and over to 2 on the clock. Stop. Without lifting your pencil, make a clockface stroke back around to 2 and finish with a connector.”
We’ve only done a and c in the past 4 months or so, but I do find the verbalizing helps. We’ve used gross motor movements, a large clock face, sidewalk chalk and a salt box. His favorite is sidewalk chalk, but we only do this every other week or so.
After we’ve done it with the cards and gross motor, I move on to the worksheets and he only does 1 or 2 lines at a time b/c of his age. My dd moved much faster, but her fine motor skills were better.
I’m teaching cursive before manuscript b/c I really find that it is easier for them to learn. There are no letter reversal issues, spacing btw. words is not a problem and they learn to read cursive easily.
I’ve bought everything for this from – HWT (hate the look of it, but love it’s simplicity), Loops and Groups (didn’t like), abeka (didn’t like), a software program that I’ve forgotten the name of (great in theory, but not in application).
In a perfect world, I’d find a workbook, already made, that has easy clear instructions like the HWT workbooks, but with pretty writing like Cursive First. I even played around with making my own, but gave up after driving myself loony over it. Until then, I work through Cursive First b/c it makes it easy to understand for the kids and doable for me, plus I don’t hate it like some of the others I’ve tried that are now collecting dust.
I have recently discovered New American Cursive, but haven’t bought or tried it. It looks interesting, but I don’t care for the formation of a few of the letters.
My favorite thing that I’ve seen, but haven’t bought b/c it isn’t available for Mac computers is Pencil Pete. Google it, it’s very cool software where the pencil demos exactly how to make letters over and over again. I would buy this in a heartbeat if it worked on my Mac!