Thank you for all your responses! Here is what I’m going to try. I have made a paper sheet which lists there chores to hang on the refrigerator and they can put a sticker on each space as they complete it. It is more of a generic list…and kind of a schedue of our day as wel. Here is an example for my 7 yo.
Room chores, set breakfast table, clear table, clean kitchen, brush teeth, school, set lunch table, clear table, quiet time/school, help mom(weekly type and extra chores), set dinner table, clear table, evening routine.
What I am also doing, is each child will have one of those cheap, small photo albums that you slide photos in. I am putting a detailed cleaning list in that book for their room chores. For example, this is what their album will have in it. Room Chores: Get dressed, put dirty clothes in laundry room, pick up toys, put books away, make bed, etc..it is a detailed list they can follow. This way I will have a list hanging in the kitchen so they can see the day at a glance, but the details will be in the book in their room. Another idea I had heard about was taking a picture of the room in it’s “clean” state, so your child can easily look and compare to see if it is clean to Mom’s standards! 🙂 I’ll put the “clean” photo in the album and they the next few pages will be the detailed list they can follow.
Hopefully it will work out ok!