MJ, what a great question. Have you read “Shepherding a childs heart” or the sequal “Instructing a Childs heart” by Tedd Tripp? He touches on your question all throughout. Here is a quote from one of the books referring to Galations 6:1
“You who are spiritual should restore him gently. You may be tempted to respond to your sons failure with anger or impatience, but your son needs restoration. Your role is to bring your child encouragment. He needs to know that there is grace, forgiveness, and mercy for those who turn to Christ”.
I think you would really like Wise Words for Mom -its layed out like a wall calander, very easy as a reference tool and only a few bucks.
As far as my dh’s involvement. At the end of the day (in private) we discuss how child training went in the home that day – any issues that came up, etc. If there was an act of disobediance, lets say, dad is the one to deal with it privately with that child. We also discuss and pray as a family for encouragment in the areas that need it. We look at it as though we are a team – fighting the good fight of faith together. 🙂
Karen, I’m not sure how the books compare because I’ve never read creative correction -sorry. Has anyone els?
Amyjane, thanks for recommending Ginger Plowmans book and for sharing your heart. I’d love to hear more if you feel led to share. 🙂
To answer your question about where we live, we’re currently in Cedar Springs, Michigan but will be moving to Lawrenceville, Georgia in the next year or so. Where have you moved for ministry?
Have a great day!
Heather