Anne,
We aren’t having a particularly exciting summer, but we’re not bored either. So far, I’d say our summer has been restful. We did go on vacation last week to the mountains and cooler temperatures, but other than that we’ve been doing a lot of reading, jumping on the trampoline, playing with the neighbor’s grandkids when they’re there, and going to the swimming pool. Our church has no activities during the summer, and we don’t get together with friends much because everyone is just as busy in the summer as they are during the school year.
A few ideas for you:
Do you have some homeschool friends who might be going through the same thing that you could arrange an afternoon playdate with? You mentioned not having close friends; the only way to develop those relationships is to spend time together, and that takes effort!
Could you use some of your free time to do some organizing/cleaning out around the house to prepare for the upcoming year?
Could you have a garage sale to earn some extra money and use up some of your time? Your kids could have a lemonade stand at the same time and earn some extra money of their own.
You could use this free time to stock your freezer with some meals or meal components, in preparation for the busy season ahead.
Do you have a swimming pool that you could take the kids to? Maybe even meet some of your friends there.
We have spent a lot of time with our next door neighbors this summer. They are an older couple (late 50s), but they have proved to be good friends. We have gotten together for dinner with them a couple of times, and our kids love to play in their backyard with their dogs. We have never had neighbors this great before, and we are enjoying the development of this friendship. We have even met them for prayer a few times this summer. Do you have some neighbors you don’t know that you could invest in?
Anyway, I won’t preach at you about counting your blessings! I’m a homebody, so I rarely get discontent with not going anywhere, but I do understand what it feels like to be lonely sometimes when everyone else is so busy they don’t have time for you. My favorite thing to do is have people over to our house, rather than going to their home or meeting somewhere. I just love to cook for people and host people in our home. If that’s something you enjoy too, you can having people coming to you, rather than you feeling like you’re always left out of the fun!
Hope your summer gets better!
Lindsey