Do NOT, I say do NOT! help plan a rehearsal dinner, graduation ceremony, and have a party for 150 all on one weekend. Especially if you have told everyone, “No, thanks, we’ll take care of the food,” AND have a relative staying with you that suffers insomnia!
I’m getting a good chuckle from this even a year later, Cindy. We have one that’s about to graduate and she’s resisting the whole ceremony thing. So I searched ‘graduation’ and this post popped up. My question is if she doesn’t want a big deal made out of this, to what degree do we abide by her wishes? Our umbrella school does a simple ceremony where they hand out their graduation certificates and a there’s short time of encouragement from a chosen speaker. We’ve told her that later on she might regret it if she doesn’t participate. She’s agreed to participate because we told her we would like her to, but as far as a reception/dinner goes, I don’t feel inclined to push the issue. Will we regret this later?
Nope…celebrate with her. But if she wants to keep it quiet, by all means do! Our oldest graduated last year and we did the ceremony. It’s always beautiful, God-glorifying and very personal. But as to the other shindigs, he didn’t want them and I was all for simplicity. Each of the graduates put together a memory table to display after the ceremony. It was so neat to walk around and see what meant the most to them over the years. She might want to put together some sort of scrapbook or compile family movies over the years. Oh…and don’t neglect watching this song. It was played while the parents processed in at our ceremony. Have tissues handy.