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Start: 2025-06-12T00:00:00-05:00
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Tagged: attitude, crying, elementary, narration, whining

This topic has 4 replies, 4 voices, and was last updated 13 years ago by MamaSnow.

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June 1, 2012 at 1:01 pm
SowingLittleSeeds
Participant
Help! My 6.5yo boy won’t do narration. He whines and cries and says “I can’t!”, “I don’t know.”, “I can’t remember.” etc. I know he does remember, he is very auditory learner and if I ask him specific questions he can always answer. He just can’t (or won’t) tell me anything about a story in his own words unless I ask him a question. Then he will give a one or two word answer. He is a very talkative little boy with great language skills so I don’t understand why this is so hard for him.
Should I maybe give him some more time. I am wondering if I should do the narrations for him for a while until he gets the idea.
Has anyone else had this problem? What did you do? Any thoughts?
June 1, 2012 at 1:57 pm
Tristan
Participant
2 ideas jump to mind (I’m sure others will have some too!):
– Read less before asking for a narration.
– Ask in a way that is not as obvious “Can you tell me/dad/the cat about what happened in the story today?”
June 1, 2012 at 2:39 pm
Tristan
Participant
and I’m all for relaxing and letting them be little for a while yet at that age…. 😉
June 1, 2012 at 3:22 pm
Sonya Shafer
Moderator
Tristan has wonderful ideas. Here are a few more that popped into my head.
You start and let him finish. Sometimes starting is the daunting task.
Pull one or two key words out of the passage ahead of time. List those for him to look at while you’re reading and while he narrates. He needs to tell you about each of those words.
Have him draw a picture or build the scene with Legos and explain it to you.
June 1, 2012 at 5:08 pm
MamaSnow
Participant
Sonya and Tristan both had good ideas. A couple of things from our experience – my dd 6.5 has also been somewhat of a reluctant narrator, but we are making progress…
– I don’t know what kinds of things you are asking him to narrate, but yes, start with shorter/simpler things. We’ve been reading through Aesop’s Fables this year specifically for narration practice and she generally does pretty well with these – better than some of our other books.
– I find that my dd gets overwhelmed by “tell me everything you remember” prompt and sort of freezes up. I’ve found wording things a little more narrowly helps her to avoid getting overwhelmed. Things like “What was the most interesting thing you learned about ____.” or “What was your favorite part of the story?” Once we get past that I can ask her to elaborate on why and then I get more details, even if the original answer is quite short. Still not asking direct comprehension questions, but helps to get her past the starting blocks so to speak.
– And if he likes to draw…I had my dd doing a drawing narration yesterday which was fantastic. In general, I’ve been having her first tell me what her favorite thing in her geography book chapter was, and then draw a picture after. Yesterday, she was having a terrible time trying to tell me and I asked her if she wanted to draw first and then tell me afterwards. She did and it was probably one of her best, most detailed narrations yet. Better yet, today she asked when we were going to read that book again, mostly because she wanted to do another drawing-narration. We’ll definetely try this method again soon!
HTH!
Blessings,
Jen