Almost 17-year old struggles with handling his school work in a timely manner

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  • rhondajennings68
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    My son, who will be 17 in a little more than a week, is taking dual enrollment classes at a local college.  The classes really aren’t that hard, but it is a moderate amount of work.  The problem is that he procrastinates and then has to rush through to get it done. He’s of an age that I am working not to nag him and micromanage.  I encourage him to not wait, etc.  Of course, he ignores me and ends up turning schoolwork in late at times.

    I am working to not get on his case about school and let him handle it.  When he is rushed to get a lot done, he gets angry and frustrated.  I understand failure is part of learning and I am tempted to just let him bomb in school and let him face all consequences of his procrastination.  He really is brilliant but doesn’t like school and is very lazy.  I have tried to work with him with a schedule, but he doesn’t want me to interfere.

    Thoughts? Suggestions?  I realize if he doesn’t do well with his dual enrollment classes, it will affect his overall GPA and his college transcript.  In order to do what he wants for a living, he will need a college degree.

    Thanks!

    HFehr
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    That’s a tough situation.  I have a 17 year old as well, and she certainly gets overwhelmed with the demands of school, church stuff, and extra-curriculars from time to time.  Sometimes we as parents just need to step in and help them figure out how to get the important things done.

     

    I would have a serious talk with your son about the importance of getting his work done in a timely manner.  He IS old enough to take care of it himself, but if he is not going to, he is still a child and as such you can still step in when needed.

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