My one son - age 11 - (I also have a 12 yo boy and a 10 yo girl) has major behavior problems. He is seeing a psychiatrist, psycologist and on medication but has big time rage, anger issues - severe ones and OCD. I have always used the CM method in our homeshool, but am at the point with him that I don't know how to do that. He often acts up in school and needs to go to an alone place until he is calm before continuing his school work. I can't be repeating all the reading, activities, etc. with him. I need curriculum that I can hand him and he can do it on his own without me whenever he can complete it. I have looked at ACE PACE's for him (self taught and self check), but he doesn't like this - of course. He won't take much constructive criticism and hates to be told he is wrong. This sounds like most kids, but this kid isn't on the level of most kids in this area - he is much more intense, even dangerous.
One example - he has been writing a small research paper about dog behavior - an interest of his. He has made it to rough draft stage, but we cannot make it any further because he won't do anything by himself, and he won't take any advice from me. How do I teach a kid like this???
I could use any sort of advice about what to have him do that could be independent but sort of CM.